[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5.35.249.64' C  x) d7 L; k" J# {

8 ^2 g9 M; P5 u7 z* b据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。$ F! ^% b4 `* D9 F. ]0 b8 b

5 G! ^7 \9 }5 a1 ~+ ]" k2 T5.35.249.64研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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6 r4 g& d5 I% D5.35.249.64研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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: @1 K  S& @2 k8 b, a& e7 T" @1 V6 ^& @- GHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
3 i* O  d  w5 N2 C9 f1 L3 W5 BPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. + w9 Z/ T/ g  j7 R/ v- A% P

( [4 e, H1 {" `$ [5 s9 ^人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". . A1 h/ p% V) I$ x% m
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区9 Z) v! o" x% g. e* H* T
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 4 G, r7 E6 \8 Q# G" x
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ' ^3 A3 r1 j; q2 q. G: X
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ) j0 G$ e# A! z+ a4 x# X3 B
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. . R; }# t9 B) ?2 D) X8 K% w
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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4 V) b1 ?+ N; B0 G; D"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."