[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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' g+ }$ [. L- n& H2 j7 M$ |6 o% X据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。4 Z) y- _- \: W, J9 U
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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7 w$ Y# `  D' o% N9 X* |. i6 \! T根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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4 H. S3 [4 R7 L" Y& k3 k研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5.35.249.649 r! w7 F' Q2 x9 a" s1 h

2 N( `6 w, L& J- W- l/ WWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' + ~" f6 U3 o! M6 {. \' [( {+ h
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 1 k& Q  _4 b9 v, n4 i0 t
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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% z2 W# K1 R% T  Q1 MBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区, w/ J2 A, V( Y

$ o  M, |$ s% |% T9 T& h, G9 T! wThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5.35.249.64; {# r3 L- r& A# `& Z2 r

: V; L9 x7 f$ g) Q2 Q' k人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". + H; x8 ?5 v6 G! U

" B7 O, w. u) ^& L3 l"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. : \2 v3 ?  d* N5 h
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区# B0 q+ c# f" k0 X& ~' m
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( h% O; i/ L5 y, W% q
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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" s+ [. c% z' _1 m, }8 _$ AAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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  x! e- V& B$ c, oThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 v8 D( y; J) u% s, N& ~) {
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 1 h3 T7 ]. |+ l( s/ N! A. G
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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* h3 L  N5 @6 c0 }) G人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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( _# y; p! l6 q) J  s/ N& x% j; l5.35.249.64"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."