[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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" B" v6 x9 P, D1 q1 t9 u人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。. r( C! Y* [5 Y
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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( I$ q6 o, \" P& q8 z! _研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ l. n: l% J$ F& s  A

6 O$ z4 ?- P0 e2 c; ]人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ( \, y, s: t" M' V
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. " O9 |5 Z( A( n, @. n5 J
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ( e2 D' c! L' P
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. " y6 C6 l) S2 @5 J
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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( S. x$ y1 n: p3 w, q7 d! N人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区2 Q5 |$ O8 d! }0 L: C/ u% @" _

( s5 _/ I! q( f" d"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." + H6 L# z4 f% j7 i

4 ~. ]; |, g% }6 {+ V# t. x! P; UUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区1 H3 X8 O* c$ \+ K8 K. z$ \
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区. s. ]; ?" i- f% h( _% j
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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9 E5 R$ p. _1 ^0 a. E& o; R/ M5 GThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5.35.249.64: Y* R; B( j8 b5 U, g$ ]

) D3 t7 N' [$ `1 R9 h8 L- E+ xBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. " }7 U9 x, u' Q$ S: T

$ p( O, c1 q2 o5 J5 z人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 [: W% J1 |7 @/ s) F+ C

) V3 D7 @' }  u7 w( P) m" I5.35.249.64"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."