[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。. X% H8 F1 ?% Y+ @: U6 T
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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7 X& M$ j0 b+ ^: f研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。; r$ X: }0 H, O; j

3 q# l+ ?* m2 Q! d* Y- P! l  r研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5 h: s5 r; ~! l6 R4 q1 O7 ^
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' " Z: e) m; D( y, k) R

& o9 u" P9 `8 i5 x7 W! y! nHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 0 h6 `( @+ C6 }. i% Y# x" K
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5 z6 l% o9 y2 }! @- v
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. & z. o( |: ~+ b* L6 R' ^
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. + Q' W; G2 N# m" `; x3 X

) L, a  ?' I% d4 t1 p7 C" S# r, Z4 c5.35.249.64Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 4 q: O* W+ R8 R

8 b8 R3 T0 |. e  {! p"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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, I5 E# d+ M6 I- O! I1 ]# M5 lSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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" `1 h, z! {0 B" G. w5.35.249.64Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5.35.249.64, n2 x. ]+ ?  |) b# c5 r. Z4 J

' H: F% s* k( A* U. {8 D: G) L8 `Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 9 F$ l2 n( f) u1 X! G* A& u
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ; A- h; ^3 E* Q' g  P8 u3 B) X! {

" R, k$ J) q, I"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."