[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。' {. T# ^. ^4 E9 }# [: W; q+ o2 k

" w! M3 ?  b! y据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5.35.249.64( ]: _) b6 |: [1 M% I4 U0 v- {
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5.35.249.64( a, d8 A' r: ~0 P# D

; W' z9 t; A' A6 ]根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区  l4 w7 k; X2 B& i( O5 ~! v, T
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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2 v! x7 i  V2 _$ O9 b* B5 B) KHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
: ]! N& ^9 t) Y  q5.35.249.64Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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5 @! T1 J8 ^) _9 r  _# F6 f1 H人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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. g0 O! R. q& E" KThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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( j' H1 v( ^1 L, J* u0 L1 bLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5.35.249.647 A. X; r, Z1 w8 T8 q% |0 k" d0 z. k

; _6 x  p$ q! z' i# u5 k$ ]& ?$ D"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ) B, ?; k) m5 K/ F( C; F3 p( P
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 5.35.249.64* }( m; w5 V" h3 K

5 r4 {6 N% ^7 E人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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( m3 T8 j9 P3 U4 o% R9 ~人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ( Y# D+ w% x) o: x) l

" w: t- Y6 y- `( D9 n/ L人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 9 n/ h% s( y8 a! L: R* ?9 D

2 R4 L  [; I6 o, kThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.   i' t$ |; v5 a: r

" W9 a! e0 z, m& y6 O2 KBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5.35.249.64& O5 l: ^  M  M/ n
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5.35.249.64/ H5 T* m) }0 R7 r1 I# x: C/ j8 a
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."