[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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9 |& _5 j6 G3 E  y3 ?7 o5.35.249.64据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。+ `% k) W) ~0 L, r5 N8 Z& Z

( S) J+ G& Q" M研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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) i* f+ l) C1 a根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5.35.249.640 V8 ?  W0 C$ L6 ^

+ A$ `* @$ b% \! q3 r研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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* n; H8 a# |; x: Z+ ZWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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7 z; ]* {% V& t* D9 K7 ~& N! {* yHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区2 f7 I9 z4 p$ H! ~/ N
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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+ c) E( \$ k$ A5.35.249.64But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 9 i1 Y& p2 t. V5 R' x: T
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 5 {0 _: Z9 t' M

$ r, L. B9 F5 ~$ q% |' L/ _Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ' H& k/ N  m* }$ Y9 c7 a8 D

+ k8 K, j; g( N$ A' p# u# XSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区( `# d" r5 J+ r- |# q# A

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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- H  t2 D; \. L: p人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 0 ~0 g0 Y" c  L( B; O* V
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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3 I- D# \$ z* X; w! X" vIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区4 ]! ~+ ^9 q# S  s* u. t1 t0 {
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."