[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5.35.249.64, Y( U6 \& h: ?$ E+ \8 o  T- b
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。6 z% w: z7 S: h0 e1 B) F( K

7 }, a" d# U" A$ L9 u0 R+ qWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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7 ]* y( b% [' w( v3 W: M* X人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区- v/ f1 o) E- @' C( q$ Q5 O. j
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. # C( y9 k$ y( K
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ) X9 p. r5 Y7 n0 E9 ?5 i
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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) m9 Y4 C7 V, u; i( ?7 `5.35.249.64"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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0 A8 g0 z; B! Z$ c9 P# c; PUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. & {* E% z: U- }' {

7 t4 n2 T/ X- F: f9 [Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 1 e5 [; w3 h! D4 Q
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2 D+ N( m+ Q4 h$ mAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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' e$ o2 N# K+ h* t+ D人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5.35.249.64+ m% I- z  Y* D) X0 I: X; u. _
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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1 n# Z* h6 M7 L% ?But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区3 Z+ }3 I# \6 {2 j0 [5 ]
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ; S! i0 u! z4 u+ s

7 n: T3 p  B" f6 X) p6 m; s"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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  z& `6 p* ]! m0 \/ s: ^7 v4 @# P"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."