[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。3 W& j# j5 e* f

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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; a& P- k7 X& p5.35.249.64Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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2 [9 f7 i$ F* z. e/ t人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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5 A; K3 i! z/ ~; [) x  F8 K4 P2 CThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". # I+ Z; m9 Z7 ^( S& Q( i

2 Z8 S4 z4 e) t, t0 [2 n5.35.249.64"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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6 P+ A1 K" \6 \4 h7 f5.35.249.64"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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# Q' Q# ~( P0 v) t' H0 ?Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . W2 M3 a9 ~) T! M; b6 s' |# a

, {' g( a6 l5 Z. ASix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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; X; [3 y; s8 gThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. , u& i& A) ^: z* u" r% _. C: k" `

/ d! N& i% S6 N$ Y/ w0 T5 DThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. . ]: t8 i8 v! p" M! }/ D

  V$ g8 L2 @) Q6 h* A' WBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. " k6 K9 I) A6 L( s
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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" J7 k0 o: Y8 ^( `! F' f' D"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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0 k' X. Y' M2 t, l" ?2 {  n3 f"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."