[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。* {8 U1 W+ H; j6 m" b

+ j& g" H: m% K: N根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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) f4 G3 l2 P& ~! f! ]: p3 s3 q人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。, O  W- [2 K$ Q2 V6 l: z
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
8 o( z5 ?' K( t# H! OPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * p5 l5 _* m# q0 u

+ \; j9 t/ ^& R5 X8 {But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 2 {( `/ B2 m. w" E1 k1 n4 N/ m) U
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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5 `' S: A1 ^' l$ s$ b/ u6 c% y+ L"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 5.35.249.64) L6 Q% ^7 w+ y8 u

; w* Q1 H% p. _" e0 I4 A" u: q7 r; M"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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1 i* u/ j; {) t" p* z人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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1 v. \  U; \" SSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ) n2 t+ K) k4 D3 s2 U1 r

& A$ }4 ^2 E0 c/ s- N; W1 YThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 3 W5 z2 V5 `! F4 S6 q; ?

) b8 f) y& e* y& x5.35.249.64The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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% G* o4 ^0 M  K. }" t4 H6 IBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区* p2 e, P) [7 A4 F- ]

) A/ S2 M$ z/ K3 q  r- RIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5.35.249.64# V& e- W: X3 S2 f6 Y2 V
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."