[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。( A5 V# m1 S5 d) {3 _4 }
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5.35.249.64# @3 a+ s/ P6 ~9 B+ f6 r

1 ~) j: U  C3 d/ @/ i9 g研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5.35.249.64# {* l. ^* i, ?4 F3 \- ]

  ]( o9 c& Q2 @- k6 ?$ O根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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  `" z# b8 |5 O9 Z) d研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。' d5 P( e6 g9 u) [: b% p& P

2 ^$ n2 f( P3 N% tWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'   w' P7 q* t# E6 A9 t0 C5 o

) ]# y9 W5 p( Y; `$ [3 y) ?High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 2 j/ D1 w* u# L
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5.35.249.64, y# ]0 u' r$ N* X; F" e& Y" C

) G0 N: y6 E' ^5 z0 z4 |But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区1 x! s# _$ M1 u3 S" b9 r3 h

. A' e3 O  @# V3 @2 K4 uThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. $ F) D6 f+ e- w+ K: N" `! V9 b
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". $ c. ]+ N+ t; d
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.   r7 P* k1 b' u' e) s' h! [" [% y
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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* T+ ?4 E2 f5 t& W4 l6 k1 ~! uUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 5.35.249.64! u8 @0 _7 Y6 m5 q
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. - o! g; y8 M$ |" {- O3 T
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- M! x2 }- @  }# W7 r5.35.249.64Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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3 @3 W7 ?9 S# V( M1 Z, V' LThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区8 X; u7 _% t( R4 \* [

/ A" n# X0 E' g: J6 f/ p" Q0 wThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5.35.249.64# b+ @- Q. M3 A: q; {4 p  N
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5.35.249.648 T6 w  z) z! N4 E# m7 F+ B" m
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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6 a  `% t( V$ ~" a& m& O6 M+ n5.35.249.64"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."