[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5.35.249.646 G% Z+ X& [3 I( G+ L" g5 w
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。3 J! Y2 j2 E' A

0 n8 D& r5 p' [& @$ D人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。* P$ c$ P! T7 U/ Q' q$ ]! _

6 a9 @/ S9 k7 z# l9 k' C人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# r/ h8 X/ W" x3 b

  v" j( t# X6 ~* s, \& q人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
: k# [8 |  @7 r; @# s人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. , e1 C9 J( f. r

+ z. v+ M: F8 p' uLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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* c" j- B& f; Z. Z0 G) a5 a人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . @. t) \( q( w9 m: @7 P. ^5 U
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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' \% k1 e' r6 x7 P- l2 D- q5.35.249.64Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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  S+ G# |' S  o1 `) e7 ?The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ' e' X) H4 ~5 A5 Z4 `: R
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5.35.249.645 R6 \6 l3 `  r$ ~( _

9 M: e# W* q1 _& u1 n3 t"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5.35.249.64' ^# ~7 X" A+ z5 R, ]7 B2 m

  h9 d1 r* r. L) E& i5.35.249.64"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."