[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。$ Z' t  m1 i5 L0 `4 q& d
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5.35.249.646 F" a% [: Q& C: I# W* a! D

; F1 q: [8 L4 O% p! c根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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7 a9 w, J6 k' ]. L% I& a人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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7 y$ e' _5 k1 S& R! {. aHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& {7 N+ N: l! zPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5.35.249.644 R. j: U7 }3 |

9 C6 C% R* Z2 O& v  k- J% QBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ( T7 H5 |  v5 f+ \, D% V! m

7 U8 T2 S9 X, ]+ s3 O6 I; n) _$ n人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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) Z3 x3 T9 E' M' b. {* iLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 6 U! m& _. O+ S1 h6 s8 x; z4 g
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 0 ~1 {3 M; `; ^- ^! x# h& [

5 t6 Y- A7 L. p( g' \" PUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区3 d2 q* {4 R5 j3 `

1 ^: b5 v" d9 y: ^" ?$ o. E4 FSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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# u) |0 f4 X% K4 N/ z: `2 m0 O5.35.249.64The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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- H; e6 S* M. o% q4 H' i人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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6 p* H( l( \8 F1 S7 S' Z" yIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区2 {. r  @" z4 \8 h3 V% X
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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/ n* N% ?! r$ o3 m; y: U; ?' M"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."