[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区1 `1 r& T* P9 @5 U4 }, S0 M3 L" X

3 M" U& v: T( G1 _3 s+ Q据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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# Y2 a# m% g! y( ^/ D6 T人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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- P+ O( B8 v# `2 W. l根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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5 ^1 S% \" ]& T5 I; H& ^研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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- H" G2 X9 [8 @1 L' h5 ~& uWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% e' D! U2 W, y  W- E9 [; C+ RPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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4 V8 u1 B+ e1 J7 L+ M$ j& l* LBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5.35.249.64* \7 d3 @0 p8 h5 j% ]
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. + \3 j& o" d$ `4 [
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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4 D, r/ Q. h6 z5.35.249.64"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. % \$ S* ^8 _* F) u
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 9 L% \4 B# f" L4 X1 Y1 ^* G

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! I7 N9 ~  B) Y% B: j+ }5.35.249.64Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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: N. I0 V8 o% ~5.35.249.64The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ! \( I0 R1 f% a1 O

5 u( G, S* O4 N/ q* fThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. * L, ^+ |" ^9 q1 A  Q, ?

( F6 F3 |, E4 Q6 F! O* Y1 |9 LBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. / d4 }4 @* G; I' C' D- H7 Z

2 K. N. @0 |, ]3 M# F# JIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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, q. K& \0 O; J% X/ c7 \9 I& ?' V"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. % A& D6 D' \' s9 n& H  C

! D3 q9 Z; P. C0 ~( t  x; m" x7 G"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."