[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区6 H" ^8 E) q0 }; [6 ~
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 H8 v8 u. z7 x7 g+ ]( c

( f- x) b' N- b人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。! w8 l, ?: l* N& n& e1 z
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 8 H8 E: G2 @+ F8 r* q

" T% A1 f! I" k* b/ AHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
+ l/ j. B7 x1 X# h" h0 |Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5.35.249.64* e2 z- G, X+ V" O" l' j5 a& `
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 2 v9 A& P5 }) W( Z
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5.35.249.64% h# m! ~# r4 n: S, o  B* L5 _; Q" p

/ c6 J. `$ h, \& w) c8 J' |Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区7 D4 }; x( s! ?& A
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ! W2 j0 z  _# S, e9 i

0 x4 u& o. E; i, }, Q) [7 }Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. $ Z, f9 ?# c! K0 C9 `

$ M0 F; R( t  O3 R5.35.249.64The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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0 ^( D5 v% D2 m3 x人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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8 e1 s7 i- u7 k+ g, b0 V2 \But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 u% l$ X; d, \1 t4 h3 ]3 H8 d
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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, X" H0 A6 @/ Q' M5 N) _  f人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."