[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。8 _: z6 H7 ~0 x0 M& b

5 w5 D& A2 V8 Q4 N据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# L4 J1 x3 \: W, I- l5 p

+ ^! \5 Y# f4 ~/ Z人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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6 S7 g, f8 ?. M* q+ Y5 Y- m人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区+ V( e- `* m! x
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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, [5 F7 g; v& x/ I7 G5.35.249.64High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 p5 A1 }8 p& _: R/ G. S. x* I; Z' gPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ; L6 t* U9 A; T/ Y: X2 X2 m
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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) N! s: [* F& ?, X9 KThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 4 L1 \& [# S* g/ ^6 u
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ( n: Y. R; q7 _2 s7 w( k
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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; a8 r. m4 u! J' V& ]% t人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." + s  O/ W  e6 |9 T5 ]
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. # {0 z) h8 @- g6 g) M5 w
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% u# @3 r7 U2 {% W$ f( f1 B& K/ fAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区6 J! l; }* u! O. W7 k

- G6 u1 A2 U7 m- l' R* l: ?6 ?人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.   r9 L. ]6 H1 n' P1 [3 E
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. / q5 t0 [- U, K. }/ D  ^
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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* |7 ?9 g- P5 u8 x" H# O4 N% J. x  N"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."