[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。  j9 ~, i% X" l: F: `. ?, R2 L

& Q" m) G: H4 m0 a9 w% H- |人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 \' z1 y$ l5 S# p

. g3 n( L, p- @/ @8 q根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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- I& ^! r( b* t, A研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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" Z1 i! g  k! _8 w5 iWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 Q/ n& m' Z0 lPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. / I+ R  b% s& V5 @3 C4 r1 R" s
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区7 ], ]1 b, \+ P! @- K# x" R7 {
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区* F& E+ o& r- Y* q1 I+ U& D
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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3 O# p8 j: i7 l! A+ z9 O4 r; c, C4 ?人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 0 c0 Q) M3 X# o$ `
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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/ i$ m5 o( l* K+ xAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5.35.249.64' w/ Z5 g3 l! ?5 N. J
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. - ~6 X) J" E1 e: U# N1 T

8 A8 W1 j# C0 t# p  k' ]5.35.249.64The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - b3 ?2 E+ G# H) W! D: z0 p8 ]
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 8 ^1 `: M/ U3 h$ }9 p

! \# b6 [! y0 b' s人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 1 a" t4 U0 I  T0 \7 L

0 l. T( `. ]0 v2 ^7 ^4 A0 a; j+ w人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."