[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5.35.249.64+ I3 ~: i* P* I$ o

3 }+ v+ N, Q% c% C5.35.249.64据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。/ u. s  N6 X! N4 c5 `; E
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。4 z; w2 e! s  ]) I2 A; j6 J
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 2 a/ @7 Y  \& c, G2 b
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
  B7 R+ G) w  n% ~( d) {0 QPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 t4 v, E8 Y; `1 q* F

8 L# Z! t, M( ~4 G7 z2 b人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5.35.249.649 Y3 y; K/ @1 i3 `: t3 h
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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3 `0 \; h, n# E' |: i9 o; ]1 f人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".   f$ B  G& q" i: N( @

8 h) r8 i! I: d4 H% a9 l, d9 J"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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3 X* w+ I! l2 k2 c  i"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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; _& ^, [* z5 I1 g; j4 ZUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. $ ]: {: t+ s+ c% Z
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ! E# c7 n0 L. S4 [6 H

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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) u' B% h' L  v, |8 s7 a人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5.35.249.64% w1 U* b' o" M1 X1 c, M

8 M9 ~# [& o$ S- z5 GThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. # o! B9 z/ o/ F% M) O
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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. }0 z# w/ w$ i( U# s7 F& M8 z/ j* [" q"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."