[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。; G" S4 C3 j' U4 v- |
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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; \0 e+ [7 L9 O7 p: p& B研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5.35.249.64( k9 L- ]; X6 o5 m# W& B) v

. n) ^* G5 G- X" t5.35.249.64根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 5.35.249.64: W, B: m) l& V  Y

; L: H* I, Q/ X! M6 b& o* D8 BHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 8 P+ C' m' g  }; H" V9 m; |
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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+ b0 {1 J& e  [0 H; K! X' O5.35.249.64But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 N0 w6 c6 R; A) P
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. # d" ]9 h2 @+ z* Z
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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1 g- D  F0 J+ `"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ( L7 ?" B: N5 `: N; _# O4 e) }/ N

$ S5 @! Y! C4 p! Z, Z/ t$ m" {  u"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." / c6 i4 |4 Q4 i! i4 T4 M
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # D! V8 G8 k  O1 D, Q4 p. Q
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 6 i& E4 P! h! T7 B
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! J' R* N7 B9 r  K+ WAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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5 k  g' \. a& |0 {; k: |The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. % |2 U6 ?1 i: u" T

* N, [: z3 c; e: e6 cBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区3 u& `, c9 W: P0 v+ u
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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% I, m6 D) a/ e( y" }人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."