[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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7 W( L/ `' v3 B: L$ \5.35.249.64研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 j$ y! X1 K4 `/ z9 G( ~( T0 }

! w4 D! p: k5 x- ]. C" f, h人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。- k7 N) b! ~7 e; l# D& P; x5 d

" z+ `  S0 K: ~* `1 q. W研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'   x0 W1 @" t; N- v3 {

6 \' A6 B$ P$ r0 H# o5.35.249.64High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
+ I& L( K2 T/ W9 i' WPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 I, _1 D: a1 T1 z

0 D- m* d) i* u/ N& @, q人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 6 O- |9 G  c' P" v; J5 p

3 `6 _: G8 k5 o) ^1 Q* R$ OLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 C2 l; c3 L2 F5 d" u0 e( c
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 5.35.249.647 ?: w! w' I6 B+ ]5 {" k

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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+ p, @6 N1 X. s: }2 u* \But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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, `7 z2 [$ I2 I- H' q" ^- aIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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$ |+ s. e# Z, A  v  I. s"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5.35.249.648 A7 O; B$ C; A( G
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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