[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。" p3 P3 }1 e, ~/ P3 j

' D5 d6 g  \( X# C1 R据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5.35.249.64' A# \* [/ G4 j9 P
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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' y2 n1 U4 M3 }' p/ a- }) F根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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  L& E5 N: j/ x4 I- [0 C- v5.35.249.64研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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  f7 N1 ~0 P. W% d# D5.35.249.64Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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6 V" ^. J( O+ W, h6 q1 Z6 C8 aHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# ^+ O1 S# N5 j5.35.249.64Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 9 @4 w' A1 N% V
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 2 {3 D0 O! Z. B8 Y

/ b! ^. q3 `, l! L9 |; L2 [9 O+ @The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区6 c4 _1 i1 n6 B# ^/ M# U
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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8 t$ T$ ^4 G- {2 u8 \人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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5 u, E/ X% f# Z. q0 ^0 t4 hUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. , f7 E" \7 M/ Q6 u% j
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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# e; p: t5 ~% A) Q* Y0 ]) l  _Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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9 }) Q5 e' u7 c人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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' l: d0 ?5 M7 E6 ^人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. * m7 p$ n& H! P4 E: ?
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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3 M8 n  ~: M9 e/ m: ?Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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" W, ~+ V; O3 h' `( l8 q: H+ n5.35.249.64"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."