[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。: J- L" i: V" o; K; u

: N. X$ `" g/ X( X; K5 I, v9 l人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。1 I6 F1 z- ?4 U# p$ W
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。/ v9 u* u9 V0 ^; s% }. F0 r
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。6 s: j7 E2 h6 E! S5 b' N

& e5 c, p, w7 c+ L5 B; i$ \5 @Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 8 N# E' P% I4 ?% q1 m* u6 _  y) `4 d% M
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
: O6 ?( U& Q" R# k  zPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5.35.249.647 o4 [: @2 e# K) @
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. * C  R5 f. i' m8 H3 \0 e
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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+ ]5 p6 l& j1 e: D% w' ^Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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% s- y8 K& V- Q6 l9 }& H"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." # d! O' {3 Q7 q; M1 N
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区2 `9 g* P$ k% ~% H1 }5 k

6 L7 p2 o, i+ I2 _1 d$ w$ n( c% FSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5.35.249.649 ]/ Y. a0 }! y- j0 C: R. x
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. / D- u* i9 l5 I/ a

' |, G7 v3 Y, w, P" c& kThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. # q& \$ N: u, ~+ r. z

/ t  L7 z6 A. V7 \- ^: QBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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6 M3 i8 N" G, V/ s9 P人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 8 U' ^' n! ?3 k3 ], Y* F/ Z5 _

. l/ u5 k7 R) |, l+ E$ c"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5.35.249.64. o# k; V3 X+ b' b# P6 K
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."