[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

日月光

英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
! x8 d' N- H+ _7 z- p( S& X6 L5.35.249.64
% g: ^2 A* \* o# C7 e7 k据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。0 }- k6 @7 n# I4 ]" J" g6 Q% u

9 X- O, M- _0 a8 X6 H5 ^人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。4 K& I5 E; E$ D9 H

, V1 C5 @' G- w9 X$ k4 d( b" p9 Q, k+ J5.35.249.64根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。+ k% ]9 M, Z2 v, l: J; G
8 ^" l. B$ f& l: r6 {
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
# L1 ~! j# J0 F: T! `
+ H8 p3 r9 q0 s; \+ J5.35.249.64Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ) o' d# e7 q" R5 ^

  W! l( h  r" z7 H' f# L0 I% P, m( c人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
5 e& j. M, E3 Z! I: l, e0 EPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5.35.249.64& R3 ]7 K' t' U0 r7 a3 R: B
& ^6 F% S' y' x. i
But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
0 O3 z7 G* G2 e$ {# P. T4 O2 ?, u5 P$ F) Q. M, W
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
4 H( ~  }5 Z0 j6 ]3 I& }4 w, p" n+ P0 N' |# Y; K1 f
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
. z5 X! T+ Y( ~9 Y. I( R* I+ i; |9 y# z- {1 S2 M8 ~4 @5 I
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. $ m1 q6 ~) S' r" @3 C6 X9 M

+ y1 c( H* m. ?* c3 y5.35.249.64"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." / R2 f  U' c5 ]" D1 m

7 b; s. P0 K* w& W6 Y3 i" C5 yUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( C, }9 `! Y$ M$ D; |; i; R

9 I4 D) D* d- E+ [& ?Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 5.35.249.64; B% `4 b: w$ ?! w$ m# ^6 u
" O0 _$ _! v! O; u. G! A
Profession
  v( f6 I+ ]" p% I+ H8 G7 J3 n1 a
0 J( V; ~! `: O; v0 q, [8 S+ d: K3 wAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
2 o3 Y( B' h2 X2 T, U/ a
, J# k/ m" g" A/ P人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 3 L  W2 D+ z3 u  b3 F( ~5 T
0 O& g8 k* N  E+ A  t8 ^: A7 y# j. I
The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5.35.249.64  @; z8 a$ a8 ^" _# {
* k* c4 A# H5 g0 |
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
1 J$ n: F9 E2 A/ {1 J& \" Z! o; ^6 e- d. F1 D
Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. : z; o* s4 }+ B8 y+ j( }# L

( G& r9 M- \3 D. q9 j, G, E"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
- o2 e( K8 M$ P3 ~) j8 Z+ r+ H: k! P8 w. W! z
"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."