[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。/ Y% U, s! @9 E7 b3 Y
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。9 ~, l8 A# _+ `/ z

5 L  v. {+ ~: O, B1 F# o人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。" K0 j3 x" G0 ^- |
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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7 B: k. G' `( H4 F. M人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区; b  |% D& ?. v  T

. Q8 m8 d) H/ M  {, \8 y* ~Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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8 I! L0 y) F4 m4 S; |) i  v7 E& @High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
* ?( U! K* R: d, N, Q人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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, u9 J7 p6 a# {' S7 k: e5 [. O! ?But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. / e  J/ h% M- O, i$ @0 q
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ) }/ B+ l9 v; D% L5 j. I: z

" G3 H7 e4 s0 J0 i% H8 Q+ h5.35.249.64"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 0 i' C" G6 i+ l/ |' m
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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6 X0 D( \, s# AThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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; o* _5 H6 p% J2 Y人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. / }3 c! q6 h9 C" m' s) a4 {

; ^. u& z% y- Y+ d+ J% |- k- hIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ) L" |5 z/ n) Y7 Z* w2 ^. D

; d  t6 U6 |. `, C2 K* }"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."