[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。9 |& D& t3 x' h  s

- V9 }* @% T" k" u" p. S据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# c7 V6 ^; N, z( {9 P- }

0 w! u4 x$ C0 k! f, h  x* {研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。# t  g" Z& W) ^  o- A
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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2 v3 X* M+ @* ^( |3 z! r人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 5.35.249.64% t- }+ S* H" u$ O: R8 X: Z0 ]

, k" d/ `3 }' g( I1 {# ?人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
, T" R0 K# q8 V- ?" K2 J5.35.249.64Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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: |6 h4 S/ z: z# l- B8 R7 S人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! h- w4 S+ O! z& B: y

/ [7 K& D& a9 m' eLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ' v3 A+ }# G& s9 t

$ \5 _# i2 O9 J2 m) _! U+ A& }8 `"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ' ?7 [/ j) B$ o0 }+ a" H

% [$ u, \- e1 E4 P"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区$ h( _! y* e/ x2 H

( r1 F8 K& h' l# o, u& R4 eUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. / M/ p( c& o( R3 b1 p. k3 C

& B. e: n4 G1 U, i* m, {Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 5.35.249.640 @# _- O4 |9 r0 u8 J
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区* F) X$ l0 c2 `
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. / t) ^) @7 M7 y" j: a- O' U- b4 P
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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+ q+ r' N7 h- q8 eBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区9 \% y$ I2 ~5 B! ~9 d

& h. b) M0 v# q- V1 N7 V"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区* m" W, a2 b& C/ p! w3 o; z$ p* C. g
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."