[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区9 i9 q9 ?+ }0 N1 a* O

; u$ F8 ?  W& u! r* o1 k. c据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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9 @, Y: C7 M* M, s研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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) S7 W* U! f  \' `6 M人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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7 N, _8 k3 s' I( J" |$ m5 K研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. - n2 _0 c# v( a2 r
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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0 @: w( o% z* ], @" r$ p7 wBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. - O5 K0 ~6 S+ s1 \' o# h" L

" k( ?, A% e$ s8 G7 {5 {8 sThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区% X4 S0 m. K1 H" t! \

% d$ r9 j1 p: ^  n4 mLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5.35.249.642 M& T8 }; u9 p. h$ i
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ) i; _) m7 D; e% `. O! n

( |' H/ U& E! h* X: r. S4 tSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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; P. E' T  s, s2 KAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 9 T0 t+ ?) Z: h# [: G/ Z3 R

- L& }+ d; y8 d% N' a; k人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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+ S7 ?! N. ]1 K" {" c: a* D" K人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.   B+ d6 X! G. [+ g. [

  P  i  s, z/ ^But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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# l$ f4 r& O; ]( y- q: J4 Y9 bIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. " Q/ X9 Q) I5 J
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5.35.249.64& B: j' `. v% |8 S3 ~
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."