[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5.35.249.64( g( J2 I3 |2 \, H  c

3 S* \* f. m  D7 B据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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; I% H* Y/ n: X! o- n6 x% G8 G研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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* o. d$ f$ x0 y9 @8 E; q; {根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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+ C8 e$ }1 J8 e( _人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ; S. q7 T9 X! @( ]( X# ]1 v, p! r
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ( }; T, Y, b: @5 ^" }
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. # @" A- W3 J& W8 e) ^
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. / y) p% |4 R/ b; {- g, L! v8 k& u" O

( k& C, t' A0 c) q5 s7 d人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区* U: R; {* n8 D" I* Z& O% e

2 x; h3 w8 X/ ]4 r"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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7 l/ s5 R2 Y: n% P3 n7 S& C" s"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ( i5 i3 P8 B% o' C( U: z. i

& ^; T  d/ B/ Q+ C5.35.249.64Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. , E- x6 c6 s4 O( ]
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. / N$ |5 n* b+ b- I' Z3 f

) k) m. ?9 B" J2 @4 pThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5.35.249.64& Z$ F( T% R( O$ {$ w7 ]$ n2 B- G" g
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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. e: E8 d3 x( g3 \. Q2 }; Y( U人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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0 U' B6 k+ k6 S: |* j! q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."