[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。7 y) U5 x! y# r1 v" c

/ P6 @& }0 {6 Y' I据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区; E8 k/ j$ ]6 x+ }+ e% n# q: Z
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; a- c" g/ ?. w8 L( [; F  W! fPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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1 @2 y- k- E- K4 _5.35.249.64But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. # x5 h+ T" ^5 A9 L" l, f& O

& \. f& P2 z" L$ nThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 v7 |1 A* E& K4 Q: g9 h
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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0 F! }1 ?( j, ]) i/ L, v, y"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ; ?5 u  n. X( q" F6 \2 Q) K* v9 v

6 v" ?7 T. k4 CUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 j& ]. s, J: B

' b" Y; Q: m& S7 Q! _; {4 wSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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- `6 k) i1 D/ X0 x: j# ^5.35.249.64The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. / _5 m+ k! y# U+ E

# p- |1 ^& j2 g0 _0 `人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. + r3 l' ^5 B. K8 ~! H, E) v( S$ y
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 1 ]* h, d6 O# a0 D% U4 n

* }3 i& T' {+ Q0 MIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 2 b- T- U* d9 F- D# C3 x

( d- t* B$ \# k- k4 g6 E"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5.35.249.64: W6 x  x( y4 e% z/ {

% p' e, M9 O* i# ]"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."