[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。0 n5 ^1 r2 \2 v, T/ |0 |! @

5 I/ i; n9 E8 k* ~! ?5 X据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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& m( x; L7 g- Z2 ^研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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; M# N/ f, I1 j+ I8 y人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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+ `+ O- G' w1 J; F) Q) y) }( K研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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) e+ q# I. D/ v% l( MWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' : j, C: |( s' @+ F0 T

4 M& J7 L/ P. d" q5.35.249.64High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! J4 p! [( Q- Z% ]+ y0 DPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 4 T& X0 l3 E* f; X
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 2 c1 X1 a# G# Y, R7 P

7 J* c+ ^7 \5 q. `( Z人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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9 |% z' @7 o8 A2 V1 bLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". . G5 \8 ]" B6 I+ J

: i6 S- l/ v. e3 N1 b"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 6 w" K5 \7 x8 j2 b; a' M% ?; R

; G' }( d5 f5 C$ F* }"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 2 h' M' u, v* d( }+ o

# @! l. k. l8 H/ V人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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3 @: |0 {% L* p1 a* f人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5 w( \: I$ n" u

. g6 q* ^& g# ZThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5.35.249.64+ c+ e" z  l/ h# s
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 2 q/ |* s4 _5 v* x& C

: j, j* s4 l3 V" \( d6 ^人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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