[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5.35.249.643 A2 F  f( x- E( T

# [) g$ R# Z$ ]2 M据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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  f$ H5 v" Y# \. Q5 \" F5.35.249.64研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5.35.249.64" F% x" ~$ `+ t5 `
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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( d! b7 B9 x. \+ U; HHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ o4 x/ ^0 C( r" s7 j  B: c1 nPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 3 ?( }1 H7 |5 B* u8 x- i1 P' ]
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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7 _2 u) c) d9 ?: {6 ~, mThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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, y) i6 D5 q$ ULead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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/ m+ r$ a0 Y2 y7 j"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 5 u+ N6 M* s; R' X* k' b

8 A% O# w6 ^5 T, v7 a. I- R2 X"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 2 z! b$ a9 q5 {: G: d
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 8 |5 P# J8 U9 W5 l( R
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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, S/ O+ B: ?* y) c/ l$ UThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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( u0 k( M2 R9 W* r6 uIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 j1 j- z, s0 w1 w

  Z8 O( x. ~! t1 I) R7 a' Y"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."