[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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0 j$ e+ b% v) s# {* x- }人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。  j& e( c" w8 h/ E% i4 A0 Q' Q' [
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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/ j' p. \2 c/ O$ T3 t/ A研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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+ E% P2 S4 w! S$ DWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区6 o: e0 G- J2 O7 V
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# |  I. e' U) A! N" ]5 kPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区1 _( m3 f6 h" U; h- |: d9 C9 c

  e5 |6 ^* ~0 B5 R# H5 @But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 2 Y. h! `4 \3 Y2 p) c/ r: l2 F2 Y

( m/ a8 q4 ]) m  b2 L$ D6 {& G5.35.249.64Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 r' s& {- ^0 h+ L, P0 N
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 5.35.249.64/ ?0 Y% l4 j8 z+ T5 o/ Z! u1 `* x) H

& [7 m$ U& d$ w& ?; D& k1 q人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 5 e2 g* R0 I7 P" P- Q
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. - E* c1 u+ G' m# D& a' Z  h: \  j* {

1 o" v  Y/ C/ v4 b/ C4 wSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 1 k6 z3 i3 V( ]9 {1 v
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, J! U7 K" h: X; G. W: Z! j# ?Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. . q+ {/ A  T" C% E

- n3 F6 H( E" r& z- RThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区/ H0 S) _& L# E: X. m/ q* R, }2 g- V
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5.35.249.645 E8 _+ [/ J$ x' F% \

- y" p0 n3 j. C: ^6 z9 _But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5.35.249.64# W* ~: E" o. g$ h& A) g
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区6 l3 R* f% H8 T' R! B

/ M6 u/ l& y/ T0 p6 d' R" T人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."