[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区0 K$ }7 O& C% Q8 l5 G1 f! i* E- o* g
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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8 B. ?6 X* l$ }& B6 r5 D- L1 z研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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7 _: C+ F7 a5 w  R0 d" }( G2 Z! A5.35.249.64研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区9 d5 e$ }  {$ S! L1 C

. q$ Y# u8 n0 Q% I5.35.249.64Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ; d1 a) b5 |! G% U( M
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区5 C" A5 l, @5 I; R  }
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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4 d! p( G! d' x" x4 V6 h7 l2 n人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 0 @3 l  V" E. E6 o( i' p# q

' M- C" m6 J0 O- a+ YThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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. K4 S0 Y& w+ \1 D3 WLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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2 k& ?' m6 d$ I. \9 h"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. " [. _0 |+ a* \* ~. b, N

% o4 p  l  S. |% d"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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7 b9 c  o1 ~% v# @( ?Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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' U! w1 M! D( {# U* CSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区& U3 D% Z) R$ f: _, ?

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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+ x7 g+ {5 w4 V5 Z5 ~* T  E0 }: IThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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5 H! S! Y6 w/ }: j* q4 YBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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( z( h' i" [5 \7 C' f; H人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( R% ]- j0 z0 q" M  Q

- l& j9 V' l, p' i人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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9 [  [' D4 M2 M) u7 n/ H"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."