[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

日月光

英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 X0 G. B- B/ L6 N" E* F
/ H' I" z' D# W2 l
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
- E) r4 p8 D" `1 F" A: w
+ ?; q+ ^/ ~; m; Q' @$ ~! q6 z2 |研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。, {! O; I* _- k; I, a

+ ]: x& b& ^- R, v根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
2 K' _; W7 X0 V3 B) _, y人在德国 社区
) l$ F) z  E, ~. t( w% `: }研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
1 w! U0 W  X9 l
4 V, U6 x2 l+ ]* ~! xWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' ; y$ U6 J( Y3 L$ G3 R+ I4 T; N

9 [% E) m& U: V  t) xHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
" f( N) n' p' y/ K. tPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区& ^* Y( p' z% i2 K- D
* _* F" l% N. I1 S2 K1 Q5 ]
But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
7 t' m* w" n) H3 E
$ e  E  @9 S- qThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
: [2 U9 g" Z: J
+ L! W2 O, P+ X# Y. R3 dLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
+ ~1 g- n) B# \# N0 E人在德国 社区5.35.249.64) ]+ j1 _( V7 G5 X! l/ g% J
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 7 H7 V7 F4 ~* d% t; E9 s3 A7 ^; C
8 X9 g! a4 `5 X$ @* W
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." * @4 [) d' e" Z) @' Z+ m. L

$ E. f3 E0 x1 ]) CUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
2 d( f' L5 q- W9 P
! h" g7 f: W/ @- Y  r) kSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % _. u- O+ \1 G  I! v% E

. D5 P! s( |2 p. q& k人在德国 社区Profession # F8 @6 [4 q& }! o$ A
, w, \8 `' s( A3 G, e6 Q/ l' c
Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 9 l0 Z2 V5 z) A. [0 k, \

! Z  K6 H4 |! Q: {# |The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 3 R, P! S0 m& {$ `! B2 N6 p

9 M/ V; G3 A$ B( T2 W0 [5.35.249.64The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
1 s& R: u' o5 }  b' n6 z3 a. o
+ ]* B' D) M: @. W) [  Q, ABut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 1 S7 V% Q( ^% w6 T( W5 Y$ |* \

0 t/ D( z) ^$ c. nIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区( T. x+ h8 ]9 n

) _* G0 |1 H7 [人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. * X) M: t4 C( R. n
8 S( q! E' q- d# Q
"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."