[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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& r1 {: ]# |& {. Z人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5.35.249.64: ]& z5 }, p2 S) ^& u6 t. I

8 X2 I; b2 P+ B5 _  x研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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$ z- N9 I9 O+ |$ d8 z7 _根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区: t5 t5 \$ s& v& T) d9 b

+ C6 u" u% h$ F研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区+ e! {7 P3 @4 e4 J5 e$ l& v

& L+ T% {3 Z, D; @# m" wWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
4 Q: [  z  E/ t  ]; @Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. - i; o5 b, a6 o' E

7 r1 x$ L, |9 M4 o& d- {5 U5.35.249.64But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 Y* j; {. d, B- F' m

9 Z5 `* w3 t; C, A9 l& i. h, X人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 0 e; i- ?5 I4 n1 J& m1 k
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区; ^! m. |8 C+ V2 S* Q" z1 d
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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/ P5 Z& C0 [0 Q0 N; o  r5.35.249.64Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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& U9 H) P4 v* Q* o! C$ MSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ) L: j# W- y! F- V. {0 z4 t. _

( n) w) {) N2 G  \' p人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 2 _+ S7 s+ m' n

! k) k2 G" s" ^"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. : c8 P4 Y7 E0 q& w: U

( G5 m' L* b& @9 s7 n5 P3 [: H1 d1 V"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."