[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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! c- }/ x& D. Y% J" s# z5.35.249.64据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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, Z2 Y* _( e# P研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。1 B  T0 |) G, d) d5 y  ^" j  Z. s
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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' O2 X+ j" H" P! i4 @/ n, EWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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8 f1 c0 U" R  x' qHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
9 F* j" Q% x& T$ B6 cPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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2 H% Z  C3 M- LThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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0 Z: }9 f- A) @9 B3 X6 h0 fLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5.35.249.64! y7 l8 v7 U: V6 N% ]% I/ m2 n

3 Y; n8 X, F9 w" ~3 u  r"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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& M# @& N1 X4 ^3 z. N- m5 k"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区7 d" c$ l8 X! ?
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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4 M# V0 `9 H; x7 P# e5.35.249.64Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 2 K( k' J; k2 q5 C

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: c1 k% |( E4 C- s3 a. ]- tAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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6 t$ q- Y! @1 C+ s* s: f9 }3 Q9 @" uThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 4 _9 S- H( c' G' a2 e5 n

7 d1 U! H7 I9 _; d$ ^& VThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.   X+ J. u) w; t/ B) _2 y
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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+ H( F6 x- W: b$ w; m# d+ Q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."