[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5.35.249.64. G# \! g2 D2 _; R+ d
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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" \( `' D8 o! a2 I$ S7 j1 n9 k根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。" r6 \0 a- A5 \0 y; E) u

3 g6 J/ E/ K5 @, P  Z6 c研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5.35.249.64) d, j  r6 {0 @0 R7 ?, f

4 J& f% b4 T% d6 f7 {Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
8 _( g5 Y  F; O3 g( p- H3 ?Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 6 b# l8 k% O/ w4 M/ `3 R7 h
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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' K( d: A' p: C"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 0 L$ G) |$ |  L* t( \

+ m" D! e; O6 o8 L1 w人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区3 G4 ^3 [# Q) [
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 7 h; @6 Z* `3 O+ C& w4 O- Y. h

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2 Y8 U& B& K2 `6 v9 ?5.35.249.64Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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: S6 P' n) k; D7 bThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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# {8 k. z/ X8 M& ~; ?% h( NThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5.35.249.64  p* b3 J: [3 J& N0 a
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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9 i5 T1 U6 @$ i- [5.35.249.64"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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  m+ r' a: d. {# s" p1 I"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."