[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。6 T$ h- U7 O" h9 A8 m; K- z

, n" D$ f' F  b; F, S7 N* l5.35.249.64研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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4 @* p7 _1 J/ i# l研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区. G9 t* O9 q9 Q0 i' R' l+ m/ R* Y6 @

' P( E7 y2 }' {# f. s/ n* `2 |Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 2 N: c1 k# N3 U) r) H+ V
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 P, L5 m+ j. M2 }+ D' D* F0 `Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. + g  ]% J5 V$ _9 T
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5.35.249.64# n8 t5 ^5 N& s- H# P

: o7 Y, r2 h8 K7 Y' P6 ^4 G( R$ ^Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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4 A3 J5 q- N: E9 Y4 s0 r人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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' W. r3 {# ~* K, L6 }' s; _) kUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " F9 e1 I& n. `4 S* N

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ; ]! h/ T7 L6 z7 q
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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' Q# L; O7 N. [- T6 QIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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  j( A1 J2 O! V) T3 S2 [8 P: z9 ]) @5.35.249.64"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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! ^$ W; @/ P. \4 D0 |/ X8 P"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."