[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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4 g1 P7 M) G6 A据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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9 U3 ?1 x) y% P: B研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 Y3 Z7 k  M& W2 w1 l2 [) M! L
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。. R+ G" H  z( \/ W- r8 V& l
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5.35.249.64' z/ v& j$ _0 a* c

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; W) L7 @  M5 `* M# m* r; mHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ) `6 P1 t$ L9 K  }6 E" n
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ' Q5 r% }/ d" }8 h1 s" h2 l  |- {# T3 L
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区: @2 Q7 m" X3 @/ i  A

5 V" t7 `$ A3 g; FThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5.35.249.64# E$ ^  @. {4 A  G. V
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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9 G" R' C( \; L. A: R2 Q7 sUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 1 e- c2 q, ]; o& k. P" w$ @* d1 R
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. / I3 g5 n) x: |; b* U) ^, ~2 L3 k

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. % y, n# H$ p* |( U
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. , U) l0 `4 h4 F+ A

; P" N. a. [4 f6 GBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区- f- ]  {/ k: Q

/ d5 z, }! X5 f"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. - }: Q( @, f3 i: L" p2 N
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."