[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区8 t" y2 v# a  |! C0 l# ]

$ h, k8 r  d0 |; |+ \研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。" N& e$ U% f3 a( |
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区) @* Q8 R: S- d# o; q& b
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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. h% ?8 b. R! Q: N. E2 G" uWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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  z, V: X2 Y$ j6 }2 ^8 U& f+ s人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
5 ^; a& G6 v! ^' l" ^8 O" K# i# Z9 ^Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. % m1 N. T. p8 K- c3 q: X

, q4 M# o1 h2 X7 `- @5 VThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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* P$ Z* a! w- x( N! k# p"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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# \$ [, g; t2 ]5.35.249.64"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区( s& K2 X9 ~  M0 X$ O

# [$ W% _2 ^( R9 C+ ]( c3 ~: wSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 5.35.249.64+ y4 P4 P/ }6 u, H5 Y0 U- q9 V4 y
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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- M  |# w. _2 H8 c. r4 A% ?人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5.35.249.64) ?# I4 Z- l5 }9 d  j
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. . v# d% q: V2 L5 Q" o& N; H
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区5 F8 _0 a. A  i' s% L6 |7 v& Q
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 6 O( z+ J3 a" G# B8 R# ]1 P

& S" V( Y* f& G2 ^; |; B1 w6 A( r5.35.249.64"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."