[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。: b0 \+ i, Y* ]2 u
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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3 V4 D/ o  m8 P0 r* Y% K' D! X9 Q根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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! {0 [6 y8 l9 k% `$ n研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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( s7 _2 E) J, W$ P: K- D0 b# [High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
5 q/ y( {1 t! t4 p) j( pPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 1 l' Q+ V; u& `$ X0 T6 ]* A

. M. l* i& @/ r! W" Y( k  FBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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! t, @% H9 `0 L; T/ E7 gLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; l: F: f4 V0 t/ r# L  h8 h
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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8 }: M3 f: a  g! [; nUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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$ m: e4 n2 e) c$ h3 ~$ X1 wAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. . L% V. a5 Z( m/ ]- B7 D6 G

% n& [& ]# w% j5 ?: M0 q# L人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区0 Y  w, r( W# T0 ^

8 }, A+ m. `8 n6 T4 C" M' s+ e- eIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. $ f: O  u/ T7 x: E8 ?( ^
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."