[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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% k; a1 {( z" N+ B2 }" \: y- u% m5 U& V据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5.35.249.642 W- R; ~% b) k, O5 T& y& C$ T: W

2 e& j* f) V& V" ]! D研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。- z% w7 s1 v! t
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区  R1 E* N$ h4 \) @# @

4 |% U8 O% O, b: v研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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& O& o( K$ t3 \, ?Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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) r7 M, L9 p# t- J) g) x3 L! w9 gHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. / f, V8 }- ]2 e2 M% L% j7 q
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5.35.249.64& m5 l8 F2 B0 o7 V  K! ~0 k
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区0 {  h4 s) e0 u2 F( w

" z9 ^: }" ~: R1 ^. t9 }8 o"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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( y+ B' E9 ]* k3 c' c% A% h! E$ _9 a0 L5.35.249.64"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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: ~7 J! I. F: z6 p$ x$ USix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ( S9 j, j6 w; O/ b9 V- e
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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8 n( j- z, ~5 b人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区1 T9 D7 C2 ?+ C/ P7 _
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 1 _+ C6 G) {, p" r
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区- \# K7 {- i+ `' @7 p/ Z

" ]4 i4 t, Z: Z"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."