[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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( g; Q4 w2 _$ d0 T; u$ [- C据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。$ z( c4 o" m3 }6 ]1 \8 l! ]  B" q& y

+ W+ F9 F  A% v8 M+ H; Z# N研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。* y* B3 M( S* a! H. }
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' . z1 H* t/ W4 H2 l6 ?
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区9 r8 X) r" k7 B' T; Y; l
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5.35.249.648 X# ]0 M2 i/ e4 M. P0 P6 ~
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. + Y' V: p. m4 ]0 J# K2 |

" s0 O1 E* s, D% C( n; ~4 Q人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". & ~- I  {0 |# ?5 s; p% t

+ u- }+ ~+ D# P/ v; M人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. * A# {4 I- J; L9 H0 ?# p

. L1 q* t3 L5 z+ f; e# O' x; [人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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& K3 A6 h! q" p0 Z+ K人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. : o; u1 F9 {6 u. K% i7 U2 ^

) m/ e  c) T! e; @3 a# a人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 8 U9 j0 b3 _( g; N1 Q6 x+ [

$ C* x  Q; I+ g  J' q1 @The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. " s& d1 X7 \6 _, l
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 6 S/ M. H  }# \
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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0 ^% k( d5 P; t4 K: p: LIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 3 u) T: r6 {  s8 y, E6 F" h
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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# @% Z$ I( m7 p# O: d5.35.249.64"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."