[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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, `3 f5 r2 b" K; Z/ T据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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$ r+ V  q% V' Q- d; N& ]研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。' U8 ]% u0 _  u6 q6 g

5 D: F  |, K+ Q9 ]$ r5 s根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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: D! k# {* o6 B, v6 Z) {% p研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 5.35.249.64# \. E7 U% X% S. F( L+ [1 O! s
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# e8 B9 m4 m0 j% k5 J9 R" {( IPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ; W' r" c* w3 \  j

8 V$ U% V: t: O" i" PBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 1 `0 ~" C3 K" b  j( A8 d

2 C! |  U. [6 l! j, yThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 9 t, J& }/ T6 B. q) A4 W
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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- ^' E3 V: x, L4 Z% R7 O, B" W5 [Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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. X. T# E8 ~) W2 l) C; }5.35.249.64Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5.35.249.649 ?& V( Q5 W2 p7 v
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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. B1 R  m( R. t# h  tThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5.35.249.64: I9 I* ~7 o% J: C# h) h6 j/ v/ s. }

; h3 L& h' w" Z/ `9 H3 k"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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3 `) \  B( U2 H6 _$ f+ \* ?0 V"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."