[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区7 f" u& f* {+ F3 G* H, i

9 a. W, j( t' B, u. ?1 g  R人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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, z6 H( ]$ A* _  G, D% w6 o: T5.35.249.64研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区" d  |1 A( U. ^; {+ D3 |; f

% q% U  s" ?  y( y6 gWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 5.35.249.64$ p! h' U) n9 `

# u, t9 i  c+ v. ~) P) K5.35.249.64High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
" m: S: B# |: M! n% a人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5.35.249.64! {! ~# v; ~/ B4 E) [. b
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 5.35.249.643 G* J7 _$ p3 p( J
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 5.35.249.64$ c0 C# u+ s1 o5 L0 b5 d* P' {

! f( N4 \1 |8 i8 q. uSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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8 B1 e' r6 c) G7 V, F3 rAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ) H2 [  v7 L( Z

1 r, _6 m- ^+ A6 x3 p, j! BThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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% E1 M  o- b' C# q0 J+ u人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 0 h7 i) l. a9 z5 Y; v
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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  G1 A+ H$ g, n0 aIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. : T! E4 T  m$ @/ @4 r3 n+ M: g

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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."