[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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* z) r* U+ z7 `* c据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。4 a1 A9 p3 {; y# _8 N% n/ k. r. X

) V  q+ D& p% P) f2 a5 Z* q研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。, [/ i; i% T( a- L
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。- b; W' l6 Q3 b2 G5 ]' s) u

: N- k# u. O$ n  w0 TWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 5 v; R4 v) ?! N" x- [  m

+ O& A( @( o) N- W5 VHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
8 N4 O" e. X9 m& z5 T& G5.35.249.64Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 3 ~$ \' k! a& m+ t8 w  g8 K" k1 ^

5 [# R, U. q# u' D, HBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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0 a7 L' c' O' tThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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+ C1 g& R2 b& N( U8 |6 ]6 k) ^Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 9 u) j# o0 K5 G8 _7 H9 K

1 H# O* n6 F2 p9 F7 U  X"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 5.35.249.640 b& J8 p: h+ ]' }/ o* F# T
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, k) R! Q9 v& I6 q! S人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 1 r; B8 {! S' P8 O7 o$ z. r& O
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区5 ^! a5 o% {# S4 m6 G

% V* y# p4 L7 ~9 ]& w8 eBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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  Q, F+ C4 C1 dIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ! h; {+ m! S0 W

0 f6 h* l% C- E+ n"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 6 @' `& i; Q  h8 {$ q# L' X: @/ u

4 j2 f+ Z8 r% H) G人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."