[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。: g# h$ p5 H! t3 Q* q: G4 ?9 ^
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。, V6 u8 f' T4 s  u4 v

6 C( w  r- G. H; c: u) ~根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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$ Q: j) n5 l) G9 M7 F" B6 q. O8 z研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。2 P. Z) @" M8 r$ U- N6 C

* N* g' c+ B: ?; A: C) F( `; X5.35.249.64Why women fall for 'Mr Average' - p8 s, U  ]6 l7 P# S

  P3 ]3 {+ m2 x! p  lHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
8 u8 R4 H2 _! t/ mPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5.35.249.649 u5 _' f' q3 }+ O1 [
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." & @. J, m. O" Y2 s
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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6 I, z+ U9 w. o( Y4 c+ gSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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$ u4 P1 i2 g% J/ F$ F2 [Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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! b5 ~; {$ y# X: fThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! ^. L0 u5 {) r9 N* t
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. + `7 t+ o  W& y* D2 \* L( H

9 Y! d% m; u% s) t! ^5.35.249.64Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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) X+ y# `& i2 W( U! P! t9 t# Z% H9 z"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."