[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。3 p* c* I; L6 c
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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7 w, u8 l; @  W. R7 e人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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! ?9 T9 x, j) @8 Q5.35.249.64研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。( I2 p: o! \" |
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
0 I) B4 g. w1 E$ k/ ~Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 G1 s* y% v" l) V) W% `% {
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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* [* W- a: Y/ r6 l/ s; hThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区8 c) A8 c! G6 F

) P7 p. \$ w  v* T/ E9 PLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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5 G) o0 O/ G: i3 P& \; [" F6 d; K& o"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 9 M0 O; m) P% R8 N# H" c

; L  B3 d, U5 j( `4 O( H"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." + i# D# ?% {/ O
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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: Y+ R- Y+ B/ e% L. R5.35.249.64Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. $ H  [- e8 F+ i7 E* l
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# T( J+ V; S/ _5 N人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区! P& ~2 @" G  n# F
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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! h8 a7 A9 p+ a) f5.35.249.64Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 1 O! z6 `  M9 Y3 r3 ?7 i

7 @" w4 Z2 A$ l6 j) [9 \# v* F"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区5 p8 T: Y+ W( C

9 ?! {- B; `% @3 l  E4 K"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."