[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区7 V" ]2 O2 K: A: [: y9 }

% u& }" `$ }, j2 }! C, X/ y0 J, ?% }人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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9 D- u2 d$ X( \研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。# f% Z7 {8 i$ X, P0 U6 l+ r

- }# Q+ r) ]& i4 g7 a! S0 A根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5.35.249.64/ @+ N+ H7 y: ^! t$ m
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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9 e% c/ J4 i8 O* BWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! X$ ?+ \; w* X% B1 P# W; G: B+ R2 JPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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+ Z% w6 [" x8 C. d6 i* b6 gBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. , E# d9 O& Z2 r1 y3 N' ?
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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, q$ k  y9 K+ G+ R  k" k9 a"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 9 w1 I) Y+ j) x) G# S. a8 |

# ]5 x, y( I( D; S4 t+ B7 [5.35.249.64Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区. r, G4 V! I, Y

8 V& G; G: J" B& P# R# K5.35.249.64Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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3 l0 T  s& S) I6 _2 [Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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( F4 Z7 s! d! P5 ]+ u2 z1 U& L% M5.35.249.64The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 7 d/ c0 W. r( P4 q( L* ?& p. N# l
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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- q5 D/ P2 }% V1 ~. L1 Q/ sBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. # ?8 l  M, C# y  f
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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* w! N- q$ T" G' E/ Y人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."