[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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+ }. `) a: z' Y* S$ i根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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! H5 z  _9 f0 p$ s! F* F/ {8 q9 |人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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9 V, c/ Z& ~/ ?3 C2 K) \Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
4 Q6 R3 r3 a# t1 `( Q6 A, lPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. + B; P1 {( ?. n: K! ~4 p: c" ]6 a# x

! a6 t  [! c& y8 YBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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, k: z. n) c5 e* |: C& Y' VThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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4 T7 m; P  {9 X9 ]# U, P3 B7 |- c. Z9 rLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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- c# b( w3 l9 S"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 9 I$ l6 w, j2 U4 K1 y4 _# z" b
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区* d& `2 I/ q( ]2 m$ r, O
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. : s- x$ m: H$ t  f) x7 ?

$ _: E- N2 X( U# w人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. # R( K8 m4 }+ o& r- P
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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8 o* p& A7 e& @. n6 W+ HThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. $ C3 \+ D6 y! U

% x1 W$ E, P% ]9 b. M6 {' h0 DThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 3 l$ H1 a5 f" f; h
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区, v6 g0 i" C: o6 y% N$ J. k% d* O4 Y

! w1 g) w7 c& M5 d& i0 H0 B' Z人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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