[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。. V* u8 p! p0 `% b9 S: g8 }9 \$ H
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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% [) i* ]5 h2 q3 k. q( G根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区" U9 C; @8 I& M& Y1 n0 U9 x

/ Y) t0 K/ \# N2 l研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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& R& K" d  t2 }7 f7 q5 K% ~) ^Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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4 o; j* k9 ]( {4 B. A2 @; MHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
0 E) n7 X2 F; g" p  ?人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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: s$ r7 E( g  d* VBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. . I2 ?2 g1 X. J7 @

+ @5 N, _( f6 y% Y5 E人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.   H: b: L! e8 `6 f- @) l
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5.35.249.64. t5 ]: E) J- U/ E0 d" [

, ?9 H/ b  @; u# S) j; e1 {"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % v# x1 J& `( [' P) o
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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% r  O* t/ f) k1 kUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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/ R2 Q) J% M. z* @. ~. m& g$ @" ISix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. & a! [; F1 p* y$ A* T5 o& I
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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( T8 b+ i) k# m, m! H4 rBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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) A. H, ^: F6 ]2 D5 X5.35.249.64"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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" W1 a$ x) ?5 N* N"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."