[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。1 Y0 Y9 U) O8 V6 W
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。: {5 o# Q; ~& b: ]

; B9 e7 a" X, d; R! A9 s4 M根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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5 ^# x, F) ^: H研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。- }0 X6 P- l/ V9 z3 x

7 Q+ V; q) x& U; Q' ?1 p! q人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
6 o7 a  L5 ?0 f& \, J" Q' |# m  IPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. & I5 q$ p; a3 V
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区* A4 Z' v7 {0 F4 K9 B! H3 K

6 [; a" _' t5 P: [人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5.35.249.64, L9 A6 M. n7 Q" k9 z$ T

, P5 J( t* Z3 d* M. R"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区) L0 j% V+ |; k; ^
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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% W  T% X$ e( m; y& v) z; o5.35.249.64The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5.35.249.64! f. K) b6 w3 a  {% h. J3 Y7 r" v

) r! ~& a9 W+ B7 OIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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4 `' r$ E" h6 I: {- L, ?' x"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."