[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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6 n) ?! r/ L) K' I$ G6 P& w据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区% I* \  U7 X5 i2 K9 C

7 _) @, U" q5 W5 J3 v4 r9 g研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5.35.249.648 V1 f. Z  u& X

) H& R2 _$ n) S+ z4 z人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。+ ?/ v: I/ ?) D8 A
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。7 a  m# D# g; ?: ?* T# v( S
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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+ f# u6 s) ~6 e人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区; t4 ~. [& l, w2 v5 }
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * G/ @8 a7 E7 S9 h
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5.35.249.64" h& i5 }3 R9 z0 ^) r9 z$ i: M/ W& ^  e

2 u( j5 w4 E$ b% V8 `% cThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.   z, k9 W+ X9 m7 ]! }+ U
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." $ y" v' o2 T$ z/ q( x
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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; e4 g/ z9 K6 d' k5 N7 TSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 0 b# ^3 j' A) [5 `7 m) [% K
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 6 |  o5 f" G1 ^6 m( z) Y  {
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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3 V9 U1 }& U* t" A# mThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区2 W1 N, W) _4 \  B2 J5 g. v

# f3 d1 x, i' C" q& A/ m6 VIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.   h: E" t% c+ H2 V' Z9 q0 q) ~
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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) U; f9 V/ w: ^9 E1 t: Y: M人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."