[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5 |' W) [* [. s$ {$ t5 v  i6 J( w" K
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。2 o8 X  k% e$ K0 S, x

. l4 B) v7 e, t# z  N* H; @, v- y研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。! A" g; @5 Y6 ^- \

/ ^6 c$ y" L/ [% b研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* [: j  G3 X' H2 W! F
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
1 c- y. {) U3 nPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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9 ^, ?* d. `0 F, N5 }/ qBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5.35.249.64. q! t4 ~; X/ p9 [6 C( J% G4 B

3 ?7 y% p' _& D; g! Q( ]0 SLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 5.35.249.642 m6 o/ _; D6 ?* {6 z( I( g$ U3 u% s
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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: J& {/ ?6 F& K( C5 }2 [人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区+ X! n* ~# A' u* _1 F8 b. s

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区5 U6 g8 ]- f* @1 f3 ~0 I, H
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区3 D9 P# g6 p% N+ E! z& G) T
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 9 s% z$ Y' p+ q$ p$ B" o$ N( V2 H6 w

; x9 ^, F4 T/ }, a1 z人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."