[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。# B4 Z7 ~; U3 F5 ^0 E/ [
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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7 T7 `6 m6 g" X人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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* X; G- Y" Q) X; v人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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" Z" m& F0 c3 f  sHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
) R/ D6 [# O/ b3 o; cPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. - C! j( [% b/ T2 s6 m. ]

3 n0 t% |% n& B/ ]5 C) Q& W人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区4 n+ L! h6 X- Z  o: I  ~* u) E+ ~
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". % p* c5 L0 }+ x7 M8 C' V/ ^

9 I# K) a) M+ a- y( V6 }' B1 k"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. - b, k0 A3 m* H% u

0 w; r; M* m) D# c+ H5 L"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 `1 `2 u4 n- R% ]  x$ _

) {9 j: K% h+ i* l# E; K+ C( R9 {5.35.249.64Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . g/ s, B  p" Z: g4 G* \8 l

, e" x9 Q5 N) q. p( v$ \, PSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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+ U+ L$ Q  Z" V' J8 ~Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 0 l7 Z5 N% o/ h% |# J; z

1 ]/ [5 A6 O$ l* [The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5.35.249.646 @& K  U: |' k, F

& F% D2 H8 ^  Q- I- F+ |" iBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 3 P# `3 X1 f  B0 t2 k" I
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. * p; u* |5 z/ \" S# N8 ^

- W( o# J2 |/ Y' K) M9 S"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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( Z& S3 J, w2 S. ]9 |" C% z" g人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."