[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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9 e% S3 U  ]1 j  J' f' C5.35.249.64据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区# g* }- o+ c% Z" p4 |

5 _9 r7 l# ]! B3 n5 D/ f5 |根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5.35.249.64# \* Z9 R3 p2 o! {$ x9 }

8 Q- |& M/ b4 P; ^Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 5.35.249.64* }3 E8 T2 g% q, O: x. L
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. & a; g, U- Q+ V+ D6 S& [
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ( b4 K: o8 V2 i

( G7 N& E" W: N1 O6 s$ tBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ' I% c# |2 A0 C" v, z( L9 c+ u
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ) U' m0 f% F# t3 g, y

: F- l  D; ]1 r/ Z# F) ~Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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+ O9 c( P& y3 a& u) A% M"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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4 T: R! q) ]. P2 I) i4 w5.35.249.64"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区  ~+ ^) ?! [8 r/ ^% Q, ~4 Y
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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; w  t$ f! K* S& W6 a: d7 iAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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# l# {7 F5 l: ~7 G7 ABut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5.35.249.64: B0 t5 n0 ~: P6 r1 ]- j

$ Q) C8 y/ Z: Z"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."