[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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" b* N6 H/ v; ~; [& _/ X) D9 s据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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- |7 r. w' i* \; o/ N  N) Q4 b  r( F7 I5.35.249.64研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。/ N: P4 j, x5 o
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。# ?9 U( P/ o: ^1 k2 k5 [6 q

6 ~6 n/ i4 Y9 r  {9 w4 }4 z0 Q% X研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 5.35.249.64# e0 x6 s& V$ d3 v8 E

% l/ v1 g7 o* r4 B; O* R! A# aHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
+ \- N0 f+ {# Z1 b! G- s; p  k1 Z5 A" i* |Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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; s' [* ^3 G" X6 ~+ P人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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0 n0 P* J' D3 q* |& m; ^) c" C5.35.249.64"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. + e" s  m8 }+ Z/ q! R1 G7 q

' C9 M' D# y+ g3 J) \6 s"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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. C0 w* `3 f7 J; `7 _9 H) s: \: j8 fUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; I" p: \9 v1 b6 b- Y6 Q
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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1 L! d% }9 z4 ?& C; h人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. " C) F2 S9 [3 q: Y

7 ^- \( A- i/ L- X$ {. \1 s2 ?6 g人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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" D) v  B- g+ K9 PThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5.35.249.64- r$ ]9 {- a! r

. T+ X/ ~  x' y# X1 e1 f4 qBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区) F5 [1 L* U# [7 t9 L( Q7 j# d; s' D

1 S5 N0 P  ]3 E9 t人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5.35.249.64+ g  U# P2 H- a9 u- v# }

4 I& h; ?# I+ n: z人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5.35.249.64# p8 \4 }! g# D% |' z/ Q' H
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."