[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。( }- W/ q: H* r3 p
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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; u, b# d5 L( K9 a6 i研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 D: o! F( N0 w: q

5 H4 W  W& I8 t( I% S) O根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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3 D3 p8 s6 X) l9 [7 V0 T; i! \人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区% x" P: b5 Q3 V( J

, ~( f) m: S1 t( E) b7 k人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 5.35.249.643 j) I* q$ P: G0 r# Q% f/ u

6 o' ?5 `! R! H5 G8 w) A' w人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
4 a/ G6 ^+ V. q* GPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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' a& @- A/ N7 j2 T  l/ W* j"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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4 j" k% R) v, Y# X& ~! zUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区8 _/ d+ ], G3 o; @2 [; K
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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. D0 S9 M) B8 z# IAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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5 [# @2 o  a# C: }The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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/ a/ O# c. ]/ Y: jThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. & t/ F( {& Q5 y3 f
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. , Q  i4 I2 J- [# u! r4 X) W

  u6 l0 B2 O$ H6 E"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."