[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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$ A* V. @4 C0 \) Y' S" s$ H据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。3 l* y- t" V3 B
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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2 B% A  }0 U( k' P/ u1 ~人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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& f5 B: P" _7 [8 E: Z3 O) ]研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5.35.249.640 }" A* l( U  _% _7 D  H* g8 ~

4 H( g8 U8 j) l+ s5.35.249.64Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 6 {. U2 {, x1 K  N. N! `
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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3 v/ D5 a" i# m: i4 B- X0 C, o8 f/ HBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 2 t: X( w1 }7 g& H8 K. Q

; v" H" G! v0 q, o3 VLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % f+ m8 F9 @+ x5 p+ E
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区: Y( P2 b7 h; S- y/ e3 d

; y: x6 z1 @" _( |( e( @Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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0 u$ |8 o, r4 X: [1 b9 pSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 0 ~5 V4 r8 e! q# _, u

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' E- L& i0 `5 X4 N7 d8 h* D# G0 XAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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6 T  h8 d1 W+ sBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区5 H8 f9 \+ s/ r

' I) `+ R# s4 h6 Y, e+ Q5.35.249.64Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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1 k3 d; j" R" d/ {5.35.249.64"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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! i  E( [" Q( G7 V9 H! ~& q5.35.249.64"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."