[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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1 x% X) \) @$ j( O/ c( {3 {. l3 I据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。. X; ?/ ]. J2 u3 }9 ^+ n! L, E; @& s
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。8 ^1 h+ Y1 P8 k  k- x1 x, o

; b8 F2 _/ I5 R5 c- N. }6 }& V- L根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。) S2 z" _" `" s* ^
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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- V" }( s5 `; f3 i% n) E4 iHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 5.35.249.645 U! e9 p6 W% E* n0 @5 A# l! D
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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7 n: R, W- z1 a6 n/ cLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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) u$ b: Z# z. i8 @( p4 h"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. * _; G) l1 b5 S

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5 P4 c- u3 W; [3 N5 I3 R5.35.249.64Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. % ~5 a9 _$ _0 a# \4 h
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 7 Q; Y5 u& D! i9 c( n9 I
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5.35.249.644 Y9 f% |) P! b. C4 i% z/ Y
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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$ K2 O( n5 c6 l人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5 w' y. j# {2 H
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."