[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 e. m! l; o  A2 x; d$ ~6 N
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。( P# ]# l# u/ \4 m5 T/ ~1 V6 x

0 s" d! J9 B. f+ ^5.35.249.64研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5.35.249.64: H3 r: x' {5 Z* ]) ]( V

8 y% d& x! `8 C" V1 V; s" xWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' $ Q5 ~; V, }) E' M, M
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ k& p" a! [2 Z( ePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 6 u6 T" M3 b  @. f- s9 T2 l. A; q1 H

2 x2 ^7 V' c0 t+ m7 O. V0 S5.35.249.64But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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; D# W. q! L2 r" S5 t! r1 `The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5 Z, T: s7 g( c) }/ h7 g/ C
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ' ]7 @7 ~2 k! `5 i8 s$ U& J8 x

$ J1 |; e5 n. k' h# l5 P0 `5.35.249.64Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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; A# X8 m8 H# Y; M$ a% {6 g人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. * w+ |/ ?+ [& h7 k% b. {5 ^/ b

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! E7 C0 X2 f. n. o2 o; pAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. * }& P9 T# h5 u4 j
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 2 ~7 X$ h4 u" l" B+ [! j
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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% ]9 D5 r, n: Z人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ! ^3 h' x6 Z; T" U

! O- ^! p' @$ k+ [' k- E+ J( t"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. & P0 g1 h- `& u" z

" p6 J) w8 u* b  E6 @% z7 H. Q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."