[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5.35.249.64/ U6 g1 L/ \. \% c+ j# o& E
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。, W( M3 [. G/ P2 w
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ T2 S; W" }5 E  ^8 n, _( n

$ G/ a. b2 x, q9 x1 i研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。2 S/ X  A& H8 i- [& w
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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+ @; V$ u" q) o! V# P人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
. B  ~! Y4 _, x. f% P( K# C. \Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. % K1 m, J  ^7 ^/ X/ D2 _3 V
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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& H% X6 s5 y. Z2 h7 G% n- hThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5.35.249.64" {# g* }: `2 N8 [. y. A
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. * E4 F. M) U* c4 G7 y3 x

, G0 W9 i& t1 ]& ?2 ~& t7 C"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 5.35.249.646 G( }8 B) O6 R8 G/ v

; E- O" u; w( R( z/ D8 t) hUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区3 u' G7 }* `' m0 b) R6 K
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8 Z* s7 ~3 `. p; W% ?2 d+ \Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. . W$ ^9 }+ h% `8 h  W. t3 S
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 3 j& j! y, e+ ?6 h3 W/ S
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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$ ^, Y2 @" C+ d2 UIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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: j% j, p! r" O" c"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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+ G, r, M3 r% W; R6 u4 j- {0 [% S人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."