[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。1 S) n+ K7 M% n/ o  w  w
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。. x8 ^3 _7 e, |7 i
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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0 v8 Z& V, V9 Y% W$ j根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5.35.249.64& Y8 C% J% F& {9 D  g
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。2 x& Z4 L5 j1 Q" K1 b; C* F& k

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- ]) W. U6 t4 bHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ) w1 B  q4 U  {8 C; o
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. % ]5 s2 T' J. y8 ?9 F) D! @
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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" I5 `2 o. z( o2 d: g5 H; B5.35.249.64"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. & G. ]1 M6 Y* T% H% \9 c' s
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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. }6 B2 m: K* W2 T, Z: Y5.35.249.64Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 3 o2 D4 Q2 n$ O( l

! k  v4 z; H2 A$ @" b9 u* f( L人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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2 D# Q0 J$ ?( N) ]8 x' ^Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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  V5 M4 y6 q( VThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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: ^* [3 b& p+ X3 r: f5.35.249.64The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 3 q! ^4 t; C( T

3 B; U) q- K7 p$ d$ B: AIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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3 {; m+ v) ^3 X1 ~- m"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. : \5 g2 s8 ~7 Z7 C, l( Y  s( L' s

3 l& q" E/ k' e2 N4 Q+ o" z) i8 b% J"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."