[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。& O# h7 J- d$ i: |/ {* }

% M  w0 }3 W, U研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区: n8 n/ L% j4 Q0 \

6 j' ?% i  n& h根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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. Y+ d1 _, ]7 u  h9 d, p: K5.35.249.64Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区( q" ~# V1 M+ `- q- C" Y

9 [( v. _; W0 \3 p: e人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- L3 H) n6 \& [# l( J2 uPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.   q8 @4 c! Y) [) J

3 }, a. K/ y' v6 t# N3 KBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5.35.249.64" O! w- P1 l! X' m* {
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". - K: |4 a0 Q$ V/ m
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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6 B# x% o- W  O% y. s% b! u! V5.35.249.64"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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' ~' c1 A- X7 z+ c3 a) l& gUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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0 e& m: J: ?& j+ j+ k6 G人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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" d+ M: h# i0 y5.35.249.64The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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: M2 ]$ k, |6 m3 ?2 R2 `But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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$ o) f; u9 u3 T5.35.249.64Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 4 s% E# P' u1 a2 B

) Q7 J2 G1 n0 P" _4 t" e0 |& k" \9 T"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ) X# |8 {' u$ a

3 Y7 A* x, L% [% Y"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."