[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区; [- m2 Q8 b: c" ^1 O$ S

, g0 D5 }/ @4 T$ \  o- h  w- N: e人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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. [) i/ Z$ J  S! V+ m* q- n5 W# m5.35.249.64根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。8 F) k1 |9 B6 P8 Z0 r4 c% K

" e- |( N8 E0 l$ o8 y. X  Y人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. : k+ z" J$ G  _2 @
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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( o$ h" c; r3 Q9 ~2 KThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 1 N- M. z5 d/ U' Q0 Z

1 G. O, s5 }# lLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5.35.249.647 }5 [* U; i- n' j& S3 h
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区+ I8 d+ u" {; ^. E. ]

. b; i8 l. y' q: {) V1 {4 G人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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+ a* R2 {" j- d3 i" Y0 U0 _' H人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 3 l8 J- f$ N6 k6 H0 o* k
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区2 N+ w. M6 w6 ]# b

8 e- u, Y) E) D0 ]. w5 LThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区2 v0 E5 `% N, |
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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6 J- y. }4 }# I: ?9 h$ b; @But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 0 S4 o  S& {" z1 F* ~; G. y
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 3 E) V: Z8 `0 A6 Y% e' Q% u; D
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."