[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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& E: D6 w, q% s8 n: n7 u据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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0 G% z% ?3 N) y* N: x根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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; F  c$ H+ }7 J6 ?0 |  R* e研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 5.35.249.64. ^/ l/ O) P; [: `7 ]# S
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
: Q' n$ t6 Q, _& y+ `Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. . ?  R' [+ e0 U  \

/ T3 ]- z1 V. h# Q/ u3 n人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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+ a( N7 y, w2 ~" {The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5.35.249.64& w* C/ Q! f: {1 |; Z
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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2 a0 ~' v, n& W7 e0 [: w7 c, w"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 5.35.249.648 ~( f& t' H/ [; ^1 z* f4 R5 A
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区% A. c" z  y8 y. h9 T
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ) y- C' C/ q# y; T7 x6 A; a
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 8 P% ~- N7 _7 b4 T6 C, c+ U) s2 x
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 9 g5 Q9 h" {) l1 F

$ r% {( F7 Q1 q5 zThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5.35.249.644 s* [. P$ x0 m6 |; x+ l5 p3 o

+ H: i0 h5 j- n"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区+ D+ c% x+ g6 L6 o. ~

, |) }  P, x8 F5.35.249.64"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."