英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 ( p* e; O f! \$ f/ v 3 W, W! f S+ z( U' u据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。6 W6 @5 ]$ `! ~
* F$ M! U! G$ p4 g研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 0 K/ \$ Q: u' Q% l$ o! f9 q- o o p+ I4 h1 u
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 * z8 k, R9 c4 [% Y8 {7 O6 A( i+ _1 `" R& {: x: t
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 # b- K& |& S: k' e/ Z V& s0 t4 r. ?! y: k8 `$ e. |3 Y, O
Why women fall for 'Mr Average' % m8 ?, F5 B7 `0 G4 M) P# e3 H% m& G% O7 {: y
High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ; C# {! J4 F: p7 f1 s" @
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ( R% i& n1 k+ r : y! I; Z- s# @9 j2 B# _" z+ tBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " I) n! M7 h9 w5 S6 Q' S0 O5 O
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ) K: `' G) }9 E: J! c' J' c' z
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". : d; w$ j) a, ]$ S- W9 X. ~& k1 [
* {. L/ i; b3 V4 Y8 ` x$ Q( Z"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ( P p2 z8 r- F4 c5 ~. } * U/ O) y0 R7 c& \7 M* Q. Y4 {"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." : m% g( a( D+ ]- ~ t* j8 T: i$ j5 N) n7 \8 h% l; t8 x
Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. $ o5 z7 o* h9 X9 c _5 J2 b" j3 ?) T. W; ~; b: Y$ C
Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ' G1 {, P5 |- [/ q* J ' T# F* A; d1 z8 y0 m) V- j7 u) t( z) `Profession 7 R0 q/ n0 M1 P2 t) n* M# u1 F ' ?6 O' y' Q$ RAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5 o3 I5 F5 A, R# @( `9 @& x p! U8 J/ k. S
The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ; h8 `2 W6 x0 |6 q) {
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ( c, g7 [) z5 f- [
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. , z! Y/ C" L! w, G # W* G) _1 ~9 U6 ?Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. % i8 A* j: e3 B* X4 N9 Y! Y
* E( o0 b/ y; B"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ! ] n: _$ G7 Z
0 S! i! s! G' q) I! n. d$ o"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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