英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 6 D& ?) o6 ^& w6 ]# S# Y$ B! r v( {+ Q- s
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。( ^' w* d7 ]0 J9 P0 l
?9 a% S. X5 k# d# {9 }研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 ) i# I5 I8 Y4 z8 ?# Z3 H. F ^& K# m4 f7 E; k. f5 @
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 2 l f' C7 V1 n& {1 z! ^+ `3 X$ z 9 B$ `, r$ Q' u9 {2 R研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 6 Y& v3 F5 b x5 u, S1 _" a p5 ]* Y" l0 y' _
Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 6 ^8 l4 P9 z( \$ }2 t8 \4 U4 Q L$ O' W
High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 8 u9 t/ P$ V- [; o6 M m
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. $ L# P* P$ k k& v/ h: r! M8 T& u2 ]
+ w, E9 K- L/ G2 B$ R* G$ d, _But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 6 I6 e; J6 H, U/ @& [0 k* U
1 c( O ?9 M, J! Q% J9 HThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. - @9 W9 A) B2 X( i" G" Y) H$ w) K4 U" U' {3 W6 ?
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". - `& o' N) X: b: ^% c
2 C- [2 _4 t5 j$ a) h" v"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ) X' i3 h$ z3 b7 r( o/ y9 Q/ t
( m- L. k. }% D" n% x" @( f: v"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." : p5 L9 O$ k9 o' k% G( M8 W4 u% \ k* Q4 b1 h3 `9 g& `8 L/ ]
Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. * D X$ B9 i% Y, |( B4 q' N! a
. {& ~* L" @, A \$ jSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 4 r( e# F2 K, R! s
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ! o# W4 \, [, ]' Y5 Z% {. |/ Y . `7 l* ^3 o- d4 i6 g" lThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. & w4 K: j1 ?0 U# ]( X1 f7 W6 j9 \# W% Z) }
The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ) k$ A6 ~9 ^$ O$ Z& ? M: |0 t: I! n& }/ z5 j3 M3 C
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ) C. l5 r1 d" R3 M! b
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 9 B% n* S9 s! S) r9 @/ e3 b- o6 z6 S9 H3 U$ W& _$ G
"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. / D1 j/ @, K2 t( q( x H7 r
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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