英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。) K! @" b9 X6 I+ I, a: r% b7 t2 ?
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 ) j5 u$ i' Q. U0 K% |8 X: x1 }. @( I% \+ n& K% j
研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 , X+ u. P3 P" Q. J" \; j% v3 R* ^: a( |& s+ N
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 7 F( D- K$ m0 }0 y4 _( n % p. P7 r' X2 Z0 c研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 8 K- U4 e1 W; E" [4 L) Y% ~9 f ! G0 m- ^+ m" }Why women fall for 'Mr Average' + ?5 @: l% t) k! _0 P! |
2 i5 ~9 s! ]2 L. H+ WHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 6 N- y% _( N0 ^, Y- A6 ]2 NPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ) |- t0 j/ {/ u. \
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. , F$ h- L: S3 \7 D. P4 @$ R# l. z) ]+ v$ w
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! A. `0 r2 S1 c6 e0 @4 W8 Z
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". % P. ?5 \2 y% E( N; H0 w9 n w1 c! s5 l2 _2 |
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. # @( N. Z1 v b" D
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ; r S' i+ r* A! K
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. * s! V7 Y9 J, c- w+ Y
$ t7 M( G: M4 m* ?* q, gSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. & b; e; g$ ^" ?+ I" j, B' Y W" {) G
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! B/ {9 A e$ DAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. " E% r7 X4 \6 f$ J7 P7 f* M: G3 Z! y- ]; ]
The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ' h: m* ~4 A8 l" Y& O7 m3 s# c2 X ` 6 y2 K; ^1 u: y' QThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ' B2 C1 U" Q% n0 ?4 I# P0 F1 L
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. . R3 e B* A" `4 i9 e" c% i* O! ~1 Y
/ `6 V) s f# dIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. - h, \- R! v8 E* `
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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