英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5 r/ n% l. z% W B% @9 `/ N
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 _' _# z! e( {2 G' h7 ]3 W ! T! z) n7 G+ {8 t9 }2 w研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 m2 G( P X& B" a! x- ~
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 8 @' Z! ^- W5 f9 E 3 M5 P( M! H; {0 M9 L! w" @+ \5 T研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 9 K4 j5 {: e3 u$ k 9 x z [* c3 f! B# t# m% _Why women fall for 'Mr Average' * D# Q' ~( c; p7 ?+ c# I/ V+ K6 u( }" t/ C& {8 g. ~
High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 B0 M( T" ^$ X7 }7 t. \Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. # G2 D0 W" b. T$ @8 Q U5 L
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. * b6 y9 d( g6 U3 l: Q$ O' B
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. & ]/ G; S, @3 x' ^* u! z O- I" j7 [: G) q; f9 O9 z1 L
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; n) E9 T: M/ K$ f; A0 ~, X9 {8 d& h4 o7 A
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. - t |7 I& F5 l) T1 R; A; H/ L' J: X& t
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." " k( M6 u7 f- ?0 U6 @/ P0 G2 {
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. , q8 R* L m8 e. e+ s" l/ c# d, r" v
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ! l$ P# `# M9 H+ A1 R; K% h1 q5 v: H' v6 ~
The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. $ S/ u( F7 i. d( _7 R* T: p
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. # v7 {7 |8 q( B$ d) X
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. " C& n( C( g; x; h
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. : y- }4 i c+ `
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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