英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 - l& `# c) G4 }+ f! [" g4 N' y# `6 w% b( i! w, Y( L4 h: n [/ M5 {
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 2 L. X5 `$ {# L, O% j & q6 Y- b0 L7 Z# K3 u" d研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 * o: w8 G! G5 b& F' K6 }7 X/ T' m1 R" h( ]7 D5 U
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。6 {" c; @4 S+ e, F: w9 Q4 z8 l; X0 I
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 % K/ J# f1 |! z# I. z6 v( Q$ U" @8 u+ e5 G% |$ C
Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 2 Z' @! A! Q, u- `' B, J, k4 U2 S
# \$ z: r9 z! V. a4 P6 b& gHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 s& x! o) ^6 `' y. \, d5 IPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. # j9 |- x& r3 H. }' v: T# M. t- s% j) z9 M& U& c' d
But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 [; J0 t/ W0 H8 T* r4 F% c! {2 }- J, Y; W1 C9 E! Q) S) t
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ( ]/ [7 @2 a Q/ S( ]: ^0 ?2 T
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". / u/ A9 M6 f, m' Y- \) [' R8 ~2 Y% j. e2 E1 V+ K, N: Z- H+ Q# `2 j
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. + ~: n" z( Q+ v; y' D+ o9 r" r% H6 w5 \* N# R D
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 0 Q' d- R* A" d$ H. C0 w- b $ R, r' B0 o; u. D" Z% Y( L. UUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. / m! E, s6 j) |* i$ g Y8 g6 ]6 f# o$ D. z! qSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. - W |: U3 J( S1 f 8 O. }0 ?+ M/ l5 }" tProfession ( ]( {, m: \& T+ o8 U6 g 9 ?: p: a! h5 YAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 1 w6 s( W3 q5 P' A; w
4 Y+ R/ O" u7 |# C. g- tThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ( H4 _- p0 ~' P4 }/ E! f( q
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 1 `" R% [0 O) x3 Y" i/ j$ R " n0 s6 D/ k' L. h; Z- y$ mBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. / D# B; U, S @" j- h# }* P4 Y/ W7 k& a! O }5 _+ o' @ d
Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. / B) @ n" c2 B6 z; ~ * V8 Z& O5 W! g+ m6 v9 v"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 9 X3 P, k c( [7 T! T$ R5 W; A
" t }( a& l% _. o+ j# b @/ p" E"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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