英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 : S6 h4 A) K2 [: W, M7 _; A5 z& P+ Z2 U2 M# e
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。. a6 N4 O6 s' }4 ~4 I8 Z. ?# [' {
4 H7 {4 g _4 F4 L: `0 @/ r研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 0 V- X4 U0 S; G L5 Z' r8 X# D) l9 |3 Y5 I: H; W
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。+ @& w: m' m `2 R2 x A
2 _/ g& m% A2 v/ A) `. D$ V研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。: ~& d( }% x2 O5 T& W" e
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' - c) p* m' g' \% Q% S Y! ^6 Q
1 d/ h2 n8 r& h7 KHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. - t) Y! }, R: }3 o7 ^
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. % j& B: X7 r; W, L9 {( J7 o 8 M7 b7 U3 E& ~. sBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ) B8 Q; W3 m9 V
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 2 C, _9 x! |# k$ N7 T9 n2 K( r
( R' E* A" L! z% i* nLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". $ n( A8 _7 h4 J/ Y+ R' z 4 w2 i0 ]/ \- ]( G4 G- ^# L"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 3 J! D9 r a+ \6 q8 c2 [ E
) c5 u! ^/ ]$ l6 u; A"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." $ S7 n; f; s. k9 j" g+ s 3 B) c8 B. D% ~* y H H! O% QUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. : r9 T" u& o6 A8 ?1 _ 0 s. j* g8 x6 z! S8 jSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 7 a2 r2 C. a1 N2 `- t% ~6 {2 S3 p5 s9 t6 J: Y
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5 X, X: g9 R9 O e6 BAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. # d: F" w8 ^. M% F0 O- H4 T4 W% M. a% W2 |0 g& d2 y
The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. : t0 B* w% _, i* s- c: z% ~/ X2 |- e1 X/ g/ g# Y8 T; z
The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 B; U1 N2 V# E$ \ 6 w5 }: N; f' q5 v" x. V, ?) tBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 0 C5 Q1 r" u4 e$ w6 J ) v; x2 @. H o. h' m2 K0 K6 QIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. [+ r1 q" ^* e/ q# w8 Z
& b, I* p0 g+ t: G* K8 n6 f( x* O' d"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 9 U4 D2 X& W! f( g: }7 r
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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