英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 3 k# i. u y' ]) ~) C& o ; m; x4 a B7 W7 A1 R据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。: i2 ]) d' D. h9 I& K- L' [6 X
% L5 q- Q- }# k/ X# M) w研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 ; Z( B- P9 ~( c! O, } / O) u0 S+ E0 j$ t8 K# r9 u# o" t根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。/ [7 D( q* y% ~4 z2 U+ T2 g
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。2 X6 ^" l0 [4 x- x7 v8 Z1 K
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 3 U0 A7 Q2 y% H2 l
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 4 R" d9 g* W( {# P( s I' ^2 \9 TPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. T8 e5 i4 @4 p0 |0 [3 Z* x
* Z& A" K3 ?! [But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. : m" J& [* u7 H0 J$ f; e. {/ P; I% _8 n. R. g- @6 @, f: Q
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 n9 w# y8 j" C
$ B3 X) [( o- H/ J( _8 ^# NLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". : x; T/ [0 r" O2 f# q7 n, p. T # p4 p8 a: R1 p( ^) r t"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 5 A6 D" Z2 O+ @5 R
* r" M% [% r! L8 {' D# ]"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." . Y: M# N; B. W8 @) f- r 2 H: C& k7 i: d7 _' |" U, JUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. * n# Q# b" O% d" O6 o$ R
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 _( j( v) f/ U6 S$ w; |% g 0 }- f \6 c; ?1 n6 j5 [Profession 1 L+ |$ a1 o6 x& _
" d: ~6 j- c F, L! S2 YAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. # ?6 `; J1 @) u* c4 T# Z- |
+ | d x. J/ P5 JThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 9 O7 T ?5 a* h ( W4 ~" |4 r6 ~) k# r! [% YThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 9 D1 B( Z; V( q0 t6 T6 ^0 f( t7 m2 ?
: N1 c2 x7 R2 z6 b4 F8 w' HBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. * z# |: A; R- G% X/ H" ]+ f9 A - [& v( s: L: p/ [; ~Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 1 \) o$ ~% ?+ |; {
: i i$ Q, ]# i; U' }8 b; w"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. - o- x* O+ U8 m7 }9 [4 }1 r 2 \1 r9 x0 U, L$ j4 X6 z0 {"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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