英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。, @/ ?' F3 m9 e" Y
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。4 ^, ~# J/ n4 U# R. M4 K
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。% ~! O9 b& n- q( n& u8 u& O M
* Y% L) c' q1 [9 H; _; Z( j& r根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: O. F' Z% [7 Q0 ~# v8 I3 S
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。0 H$ W4 g+ ]. I6 T2 Y3 w4 C
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ' \7 z* G6 ~ g8 u; c- f# o5 W0 Y
High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ' [1 E e7 o" W8 r2 gPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 I2 f. Y0 c& N6 l
/ H0 [% \/ p5 X7 J- S h8 sBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ' E' |9 ]1 f( L, A. j
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. - l w+ p6 t( M7 o& J/ K, J% M
1 L) L5 t+ t0 o2 n) J$ w6 |Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". : x" M/ L5 W& Y0 e: k4 L: M- A
0 I' {! z; I# ~3 F/ m"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. $ N6 X" @; Y5 i+ d. V$ j y6 M: `- }, `0 |% `5 S
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." & E3 c4 |9 }6 ^& l" m# K- @ c
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. & }" l( L5 B4 m
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % ]! U% U' J- l% }5 Z. M" r" N6 u
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ; e# G0 }# X7 \& R% T( b* h. J
' v) w, w! n) [3 ?8 M- K2 f1 OThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. , e3 ~) J( N7 a; l8 l/ B" Q6 h+ ?$ a9 Z t1 ^. t7 U
The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ W0 Z1 e) J$ y3 {! e }; s/ E- I7 z" k$ A* D3 @1 x9 sBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. - _: P3 u+ ~* P+ s, w
4 d+ V; L5 o; r* P* K: V/ Y* a% SIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. : B- P9 E {$ A3 X- s0 @3 S- {7 I" Z
"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. / k" P" o6 L: y# r4 v5 ?/ c
4 v8 }7 J L% c- d1 o' m$ g9 Y4 N"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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