[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5.35.249.64( p8 c& g! s) z% m

" M/ x, m; f  E6 u5.35.249.64据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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2 a, i2 h+ s0 s8 |% P% k1 K% R8 O5.35.249.64研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。; q. J, Q( t% A6 O; @

+ Q* m. a4 `  q# |! t) h, m* v5.35.249.64根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区# h7 x6 N. q5 l( [

9 b! V, I! d! x. a* b研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。& ?" N6 @2 `5 X
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 f  a/ \. {  [- ~# Q& V, o
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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7 k% j' w1 N! S) b7 W# VThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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7 ]' |: n" S7 W. r$ r0 tLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". : ?- |5 J3 U% h0 g' [

, M9 A. \% |1 R- s"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." * X2 u) T1 f; l7 L7 i3 Y7 t) r" c
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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) k6 n9 b. ]' n8 Y6 F人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. - t7 H) S1 u1 l; w0 p+ y: H

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5 n' I7 e. b; v! ~, z
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5.35.249.64! V+ v2 q9 I9 a6 f
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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5 M4 \  _# o) l: ~' b" A5.35.249.64"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."