[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。. q8 @: _# t9 z5 L" s, D0 g

* L. f5 p5 l) L$ Q: a: `) ?. D' O  J人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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: _& r0 Q4 }% g9 N人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5.35.249.64: [5 m4 r' F# g
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。  b- n' R* `2 U3 ?2 E

  a/ P2 |, h* d- n# t, V( P研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区( ]( B+ z1 }' l
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 5.35.249.64, o2 v9 ~: q: k, t

0 t* |1 h5 X0 X5 f: k* ]High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 5.35.249.64- ]9 C& R. T6 M$ U2 ]- Z
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ; Z3 C  }  O, E  e; b9 l

- O0 d+ g6 r* u! [But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区+ d- H9 M5 B: P: d
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5 r/ I5 Q& I. k7 z- M

9 |# G; Q/ l$ g$ h9 S/ q, C- O"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." # s+ F% f7 X7 j" \! W

; |9 {( `7 |; m0 O' C" ?$ ~2 Y人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # c- ~" B6 D0 s- J1 j9 T- }. S

, C. s/ ]5 ^9 _. eSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 1 p7 p. m. ]5 Q2 f- K: m( n

# _5 P8 h2 |! M: X7 k8 AThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. . K, O3 C; c0 {' o

+ k" P) u, G; O: g8 \' `人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5.35.249.64( y# t& p3 b* x/ b% }% G: O, ]
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 1 s9 L- \1 x2 F: d3 ?2 i

1 M! f4 C2 {) m人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. - m  X, h/ d. Q3 j9 S8 [' K

: B: p, H& t) e& o) J8 g6 D. Y"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."