[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。/ ?# V4 `3 J  Q- q$ r8 C' T

  G# o# B8 S+ V7 E据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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$ o# D- U! c8 L7 |* Q4 h研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5.35.249.643 r/ C2 s( t6 y$ b) o* ?4 t
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5.35.249.641 A, Y" D  u+ r9 h; d
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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0 J0 a: S2 e/ y& ?High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
9 {; e  H( I- H' aPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * k) s" w7 i4 z& f

' ?/ m- C" r5 S8 C' dBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 J0 K6 v7 t9 w5 l* k# N  M. t* m

1 V: n: H% ?, Y, W5 t3 h$ ?The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. + U+ q% E" E6 h- @5 ^

& F) K# P3 D7 B6 eLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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' x$ a  t, G! n# n"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. , {( w: p" S3 c+ V- o- D
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区1 X. ~8 a# U: m% c. k
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 0 [3 [# ?% I) V$ ]/ P- {, S

+ Q9 l6 }, K- b0 _# s5 a6 XSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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4 m) G6 ]; ]" S  C; mAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ! b8 t  A7 @# C' E& W# _7 A
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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. o4 L4 F, v- u. ?0 X7 fBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5 O' L/ q! A" x/ l/ \% z2 b3 R
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 1 T, N# i: |1 }; a# H, k
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ! K1 i) z- ~" O1 k8 h. _' d

! }5 e$ G0 f6 u' p"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."