[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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. X4 G5 E4 S: i8 D# U7 b+ J6 k/ F研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 L% c8 s4 L( O* v5 q

" C, i; b9 y6 A! r根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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, {" @4 ^" s) e! a人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。6 I7 O" M4 V& v2 [2 c

6 V) _( o5 T% m2 U. U- f人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'   K" W% h; d7 {: a( l# w+ F

6 d% ]4 J. h' r# t  T! ZHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区  h5 X' P2 i  |
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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2 Z+ q* h6 X3 ?, L9 qThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 4 j9 u1 k! d: Y+ b
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. $ j6 H0 j* O, E

/ H7 d/ P2 i2 z2 ^; P6 P. S& CSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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3 ^& I3 S& k; ~- Z% m, f3 ~Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5.35.249.64; R! t8 h* G0 p7 `: W/ q3 u6 ^
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5 ]7 P$ U, o: I! H  d+ ~4 r

6 L1 A. u0 a6 ^( P! o, P; VThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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+ P/ m; \" n$ Y+ D/ R"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5.35.249.64. U9 d7 L0 f7 ^( z

3 F6 v0 |5 n2 h2 q) F. V人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."