[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。; }: s9 @9 H, j" z) V9 S1 F
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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3 ~% C, A1 L3 O9 G研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 X2 v8 K& R) y; u' k
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。0 |9 N0 t5 K- ~% L

" N" n1 f& d; O  i( K人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区# h( D* a+ ]6 M& h6 o  K) W9 r* t

" k0 \: ?5 E' L% `; _7 jWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 6 L. L7 D) C/ w8 r% \* ?) y5 ^
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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; T" r' i, O" V5.35.249.64But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5.35.249.64: }* p. u5 F3 J# @& [! R9 X8 u
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区7 \7 @, R) r( m% ]
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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+ T- i5 Q; H" X2 m5.35.249.64"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区2 Q* \; w2 v6 h, e

7 G5 z& l6 }& A5 p: g. T1 Q; z+ ASix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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* k" Q" i( `1 e8 s4 }. p4 E# QAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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" g" l" a& s9 A. N2 V4 ]' t, N  C人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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1 R5 ^! c4 Q5 L. RThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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4 w5 w1 f" ^" K) ~3 h  K1 k5.35.249.64But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5.35.249.640 W. c- q0 W/ z( c
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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& M3 l& ^/ v5 ?6 h  S"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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+ y1 `3 b- M) B# ?( e! e5.35.249.64"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."