[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5.35.249.64% o8 U7 `2 E  Y, C- |

# a; M$ j  d* C- X) I2 f' V据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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8 G! R! V. g* s% ~$ O研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区, J4 C/ o7 I" B  u1 b  ~) i

& h8 }* L0 W7 \5.35.249.64根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。, H/ L: h2 T/ [# k
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。3 V( D$ B1 E8 ^1 o
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. : [5 _* J9 }# D) V5 R
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ' ~0 m$ z6 I7 g( w6 D! O
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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3 m: L4 u0 o2 iThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5.35.249.641 T. N" }* C, r. W6 o0 _1 s7 y- R2 ]

6 S: j- e( M* NLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 5.35.249.646 _' M5 @" Q" Q- v  f

! ?- J# y7 [, `/ }9 x" T2 H1 N"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." # F/ B5 E$ I2 o5 q1 L

) J$ i% h/ i' }- i+ S& I3 u$ MUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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$ t! }  S# U0 }% Y8 c% V/ d% v4 CAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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- B! }: F" M# @/ M7 D7 s6 gThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. . B; k& e+ r1 T" v& X. w+ _
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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# O" G4 S9 I  f; E* UBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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) p, a! P8 P- ?" `! LIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( Y. h  `: [  B) M* s$ B, }1 e, J

3 Q) ~) j. D/ X% x人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."