[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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6 D) K# V7 u' g9 ]6 }' I" R据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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1 C( \2 `( y4 D+ @9 x0 c研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。8 d) E' z( n. ~/ }
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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8 ?  U7 D, z2 t5 w, N5.35.249.64Why women fall for 'Mr Average' - ?6 `% ~  ?7 D: A5 J7 a
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
3 X" A) `  s  b1 {5 \4 J5.35.249.64Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 8 H$ p& @5 U4 }; Q
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区  m& D) U; W6 a$ `5 W2 ?& \

0 J" W5 @6 Y: y% yThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区& t5 f( Q' L$ l. ^* `

8 Z# }% z8 ^& S8 x- JLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". - b, b1 K8 O* n4 ^1 s' j
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ' G9 V$ d5 ^( I0 o- S) n/ b
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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+ Q8 ^8 G! h- g( D, f人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 2 [2 Y+ U) g$ u6 L$ f

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. G# Y9 w6 t- }7 `0 ~# L* GAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. , H0 |5 T* f4 {+ |- b
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. : U$ g5 c  s* W1 ]# u6 ?- `+ n

+ y9 l( I( j# |3 i% o/ W* @But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ! H" F4 i. j. ^$ g4 {! e
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 0 Y  D: ]- D7 ^6 T+ F  O8 N
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."