[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5.35.249.64" M2 b4 a' f. n- U1 ?
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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5 x7 m3 N% R3 V& c研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 1 y: ^4 R2 L# Z; x/ z3 a
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
) n( P) M0 z6 WPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5.35.249.64  R1 s6 q+ t5 _* A
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ( b6 y) b- R8 I/ R7 N4 H# p, v6 a

) _3 y. `' ^- _0 WLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 0 \2 u0 g' a0 f9 M' b9 M
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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1 e+ V  x2 ~: g8 O) H$ r: v7 q  \Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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1 J3 r: j, U6 f) O9 U- QSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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5 K. E# C( z9 Q; b/ ^$ XAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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- a4 {. x9 [. y' H5.35.249.64The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5.35.249.644 W$ O$ W3 L0 }: J4 F

# ]  P. X0 B4 e+ C0 CBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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, z' C& O/ c; z* P$ P' u人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5.35.249.64$ _9 l! @3 k3 k" \2 c
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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! ?1 U8 n2 U5 r4 ]! D8 I"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."