[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区; k- j3 i6 Q7 b8 |

9 I/ z4 M8 j! A  F7 `% i7 r据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5.35.249.64; k# N1 M4 _7 y) o
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ) G) L* p3 m; m
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
) V+ v8 k! O2 W. {' SPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5.35.249.64' M/ |7 p/ c& p, B& c7 J; m

% c, E2 C1 {) O  IThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区( V0 ~, }7 G! R6 Z9 x$ u+ E- _

. t5 W: A  w( |$ G. g2 ?% s"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. $ y+ F  h0 G2 U7 B' t  N3 S

1 S0 ]0 D  w) l& |& T0 I"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 6 Y7 ^) e7 R, U, v0 \9 N6 [% l
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( l; F# h5 ^5 `& V- O0 e, t6 A; W
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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3 m) x: [7 h: R9 @Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 3 H+ V% S( z7 F5 S" Q
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区- m9 `. c' l0 K$ z3 z
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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# p  O4 }8 \- RIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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! H  a6 L6 @/ f( f5 L/ q# m"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."