[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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: V+ k  }, `8 v; l. h研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 o; k) r& F9 u4 s& k, a  L  k! a; y
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。; {" \& c' I) a$ @# e. w* [/ F
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。0 j- s: H8 O; J( g0 X) @

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; G: [" S' [* J' f0 O& CHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
. C' b; j! `: R& ?+ b* A8 nPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. . o% @6 f2 f% R1 k4 l) o/ t" b
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5.35.249.64; g" p) T9 M# P+ _* y5 m; B: }
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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$ z1 M4 G! z& i7 P9 d. v5.35.249.64Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区; x* Q& x5 P, V/ }! ^3 A4 {# W

% B" e- e  B8 ^% c( [2 V" z3 v' e"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区4 ]0 C5 G" f0 \7 n0 z# E# Y
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." * ~3 O: q+ V8 z: \! g% W

. S8 U, ~# u$ K2 ]4 C+ q+ UUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 5.35.249.648 x" S, G, N! _+ N# _
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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* b/ X& ^: L! I/ B; Z/ I人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区: T( |; S" Q4 [; u$ B" U9 [
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区: V- O8 S  G* N1 x' A# K" C& M; f) n

% b, V1 h+ ~4 Y. t$ j7 @5.35.249.64The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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5 z- W( K# u9 p' Y8 ?0 dBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5.35.249.64  W; g! |0 T% r' P
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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. ~; W) r" Y$ z* z. q"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区6 u2 x: x# k% ~
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."